2006-06-29 12:13:59 · 44 answers · asked by sugarfoot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in the same situation and its not a bad thing because you gotta learn to see pass that.you gotta put yourself in his shoes..would you like it if a guy wont date you because you have kids?.i mean its not fair right.so why shouldnt it be for him?...just know its tough but not impossible..hope this helps.
2006-06-29 12:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by sekzieannie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends. I know a guy that has three kids with three different women and he's never married, so in that case, I'd probably say no. But on the other hand if they guy was married and it didnt work out or something like that, Id be more willing. But you have to keep inmind you are going to be seeing his ex along with the kids every know and then and there could be jealousy on either your side or hers. There are a lot of things to think about, Id wouldnt avoid it if I fell for a guy with kids but I'd be cautious for any kind of LTR.
2006-06-29 12:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your perspective of it as long as u like kids i dont see why not they can add a lot to a relationship. most of the men i date are already parents and i love doing things together with the kids it makes things very entertaining but then again i love kids. And as long as u get along with the kids then i dont see why that should be a problem and as long as he treats you well then why not right. Its not like you got to be there mom they already got one of those, but they can add so much more excitement to life.
2006-06-29 12:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like them go for it, but at the same time expect that a relationship like that won't be easy because not only do you have to get along with him, but you also have to get along with the kids and the kids' mother.
2006-06-29 12:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by moma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are just people. We were all a kid once. I think men who have children are incredibly sexy. Especially if they are a good Dad. If they are not tentative to their children, then stay clear, the cycle will continue....
2006-06-29 12:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. He wont get to go on some dates bc of the kids. But if you are going with someone who has kids, dont break up with bc of his kids. He needs someone to help raise them.
2006-06-29 12:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , men date women with kids so why not
2006-06-29 12:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if your are comfortable with kids, but the way folks get divorced now a days you will probably date someone with kids at one time are another in your life time.
2006-06-29 12:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by donnasworld1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest. You have to love children. Be aware that it is a package deal. If he is responsible and a good father
NO BABY MAMA DRAMA. Or at least they can talk like adults concerning there child. Then Yes. Watch him and how he raises his child (morals)
2006-06-29 12:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by Marcus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if u wanna deal with baby mama drama sometimes or if he got some lil bad a$$kids I would say no
2006-06-29 12:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Young boi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, there is nothing wrong with dating a man with kids and you can get some practice so when you decide to have your own you want be nervous.
2006-06-29 12:18:13 · answer #11 · answered by Erica j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋