2006-06-29 12:03:26 · 14 answers · asked by mommomrosie7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my husband and i were married for 6 yrs. he was diagnosed in 2004 was in remission dor almost 1 year when the cancer spread to the bone. i was with him the whole time didnt leave his side and he died in my arms. no bills just good memories and i knew he loved me very much
2006-06-29 12:17:19 · update #1
Found some online sites for you or those near you to check out. It really helps to either join a support group of people who have suffered what you're going through or reach out to your friends and family and ask them to help you any way they can - and they will.
2006-06-29 14:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by im_a_fun_nut 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I could perform miracle's. In times like this you surely need a close friend by your side. Cancer is a terrible thing. My dad died with cancer as well. I feel your loss.You have been through alot of pain with his passing. Everyday will get a little better for you. Take time for yourself. Go to lunch with a friend. Do anything to get out of the house, Start walking for the exercise. It helps me to rest better. May God be with you always...
My Deepest Sympathy
P.S. If you need a friend, contact me. Also its wonderful to see that so many people out there have such a caring heart.
2006-06-29 19:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband of 35 years died of cancer 7 months ago, each day is a struggle, but it is getting slightly easier to deal with the pain and loss. My family and friends have been a blessing and i hope you have a good support group, i will keep you in my prayers and remember one day we will be re-united with our loved ones that have passed before us. May God give you strength and comfort,
2006-06-29 20:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by bosco 53 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through. My dad passed away from lung cancer 6 years ago and it still eats at me everyday. My mom is coping okay I guess, she has 3 kids to take care of and a house payment. Just let God be there for you and it will be alright. I'm sure you have family that can help you in your time of need, let them be there for you through this rough period. If ever you want to talk email me okay. Good luck and God Bless You.
2006-06-29 19:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad i can understand how hard it might be but you as a person has to go on for yourself and well being and if you have kids you half to be strong for them just remember the good times you had with him. i know it was such a short time but a short time with someone could have been a lot of lifetime memories with each other. STAY STRONG i am sure your husband don't want you to be sad just remember his last words to you.
2006-06-29 19:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there. I know it is so hard. I lost my wife to suicide , 2 years ago. We were married for 30 years. I was devastated. It does get easier. You will never forget. Just try and remember all the wonderful things. I still think about her every day. We have to move on. God has a purpose . We don't know why it has happened but He does. Get busy and serve others. You won't regret it. It really helps. I don't know how you feel but I know how I feel . Soooo hard, I know. Make him proud. You have to move on, when your ready. I wish you the best. D.T.
2006-06-29 19:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by tucker_dennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel such sympathy for you. The best advice I can give is to allow yourself to grieve all that you have lost, but try not to get lost in the grief. Even if that means faking a few smiles and going out when you really don't feel like it. Eventually it will get easier. Just remember that he would most likely want you to try to contnue to live a full life.
2006-06-29 19:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by poeticnay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend going to the American Cancer Society and finding a Cancer Survivors Support Group locally. Most support groups offer support for cancer victims and their families.
2006-06-29 19:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by TMH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are for real with this there is nothing that anyone can say to relieve your pain. Time will heal the emptiness in your heart and life will continue.
2006-06-29 19:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't lie I don't know what you are going through so I can't exactly relate but I can tell you this he is no longer in pain and he is still watching you our loved ones always do.
2006-07-06 17:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by jmareem2284 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋