2006-06-29 11:35:55 · 21 answers · asked by drew92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her. Tell her that you think you're ready to have sex, and that you'd like to know if she's ready too. Don't pressure her, and if she says no, respect her decision. Be open, honest, and understanding, and even if she decides that she's not ready yet, she'll at least know that she can trust you when she is.
Also, use condoms every single time, no matter what. Good luck! :)
2006-06-29 11:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in a conversation, casually bring up your feelings towards her. tell her how much you love her, etc and in your own words ask what her thoughts are about "becoming intimate", immediately after that question reassure her that you do not in any way want to make her feel pressured or uncomfortable or unhappy in any way. she is precious to you and you want her to be happy regardless of how she answers. this way, she'll be more likely to say yes because she'll know she is in control and will probably want to say "yes". just a thought.
2006-06-29 18:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Girl Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other, then it'll happen in time. Probably when you least expect it. What guys need to understand is that most girls want it just as bad, they just don't want to move first. But if you touch her "happy spot" and she doesn't move your hand, then there's nothing to tell her!
2006-06-29 18:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by datite1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her. Tell her that your'e ready. But listen to her feelings too. She may not have the same thoughts as you do.
2006-06-29 18:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by shelgirl912003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how much she means to you and tell her you really want to be with her sexually but make sure you tell her that you want pressure her into doing somthing she doesnt want to do.let her know that nomatter what you will still love her.who knows she might be wanting sex as much as you do but is waiting for you to make the first move.good luck
2006-06-29 18:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by memeemelissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel comfortable, say you are ready to take the relationship to the next level, don't force the issue though. If she's not ready... she's not ready.
2006-06-29 18:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by laura b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Link her to this page.
2006-06-29 18:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Arpeet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to tell her. It will happen when you both are ready. She may not be ready or she would have made a move to do it with you
2006-06-29 18:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young, let it happen when it happens. Or ask her if she's ready. (beacuse I know you don't want to hear the first part of the answer)
2006-06-29 18:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by sixteensgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u truly love her then u wont hafta talk 2 her about sex....if its gonna happen itll just happen u cant force it
2006-06-29 18:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋