I've been seening boy # 1 for almost a yr. and boy # 2 just came along three months ago. I tried breaking up with boy # 1, but he said he loves me and can't let go. Boy #1 has a lot of money, he doesn't spend that much time with me, we can talk about everything, and the sex is okay. Boy # 2 doesn't have much money at all, we don't talk as much on the phone, the sex we have
is the best of the bestest ever EVER!
Which one should I dump, and which one should I keep around?
2006-06-29 11:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by CTargrl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never base a decision to be in a relationship on sex. Sex is not everything. It depends on how serious you want to get with them. If you want to find a guy to settle down with...you should stay with number 1 because you said you guys can talk about anything. You said you guys don't spend alot of time together, but that can always change. You said he's got money so it sounds like he has a steady job. That's an important thing to think about when you're looking for someone to settle down with. You don't want to be struggling to survive when you're together, do you?
But if you're not ready to settle down just yet and you're not looking for a serious relationship, I'd go with number 2. But NEVER base a relationship on sex...that'd be very shallow.
2006-06-29 11:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide what's important to you in a relationship. love, sex, money, time spent together. You might as well keep them both because it doesn't sound like you are really wanting to commit. You ask which one you should dump and which you should keep around. "Keep around" doesn't sound like commitment to me. Have fun. Get what you can while you can. Play the field. Then you will know better what will make you happy and you will have more of a selection of men from which to choose.
2006-06-29 18:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by grrandram 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I really don't like girls that do this sorry but you mess up the good guys for the rest of us. I would suggest that you dump both of them and find yourself sothat you don't get into this kind of sercumstance again but you wont listen to me. If you think that it is all about sex then go with #2. Ethier way let #1 go tell him what is going on and let him know that there are loyal girls out here so he doesn't get so hurt that he turns into a player.
2006-06-29 18:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump boy # 1 because boy# 2 makes you feel more cool in the bed. Remeber their just two guys theres a world full of guys.
2006-06-29 18:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a whore. Hey! why stop at boy number 1 and 2. why dont you keep hoeing too boy 6, 7, 8 , 9, 10, ride the train you skeeze
2006-06-29 18:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It sounds like you are young, so you are suppose to date many people (not have sex). Don't get tied down to just one person, you have your whole life ahead of you. Live life now. Boys will come and go, but friends will always be there. Enjoy your life hanging out with your friends.
2006-06-29 18:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by khandi2569 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't commit to either one, if you could of which you should of already picked one then you would of already, instead your a selfish tramp. I can't even believe money is a factor your a screwed up girl.
2006-06-29 18:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by sixteensgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a hoe just stay with the poor guy be4 u turn into a goldigger to
2006-06-29 18:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is money that important to you? i'd say go for the one that you have great sex with -- that you get along better with -- that treats you better -- and that you like more.
2006-06-29 18:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the one that will let you date both.
2006-06-29 18:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by ac2444 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋