Im 18 and I have a b/f... But idk if he's the right one for me. I'm a Christian, and I try to do my best to follow the Lord, but I feel like sometimes he can bring me down because he's a non-believer. But he can be a great guy too sometimes.. what should I do?
2006-06-29 11:03:50 · 13 answers · asked by Darz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in the same boot as you babe.
Its hard to keep afloat when ones waying ya down innit!
I guess all you can do if you dont wanna leave him is try help him find God 2, that what ive been doing for 2yrs :?
Pray for him girl...
But try not to preach to him 2 often, thats the mastac i make all the time.
just say sometimes...
See thats God that is!
2006-06-29 11:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Loving and loved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a great guy, stick with him... Apparently there's only a few of us out there, haha ;). Also, there are so many religions out there, who can honestly say their's is the true/right one? Just because he doesn't have the same faith as you doesn't make him a bad person, you are just different in that aspect... So I guess you have to make your decision based on how he makes you feel other than the religion aspect, think of it that way... I hope this helps...
2006-06-29 11:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by tommywheelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most Christians will tell you to get ot of the unequally yolked relaionship. I say that it is a hardship but if you love him maybe through your love and example he'll start going to church with you and grow along side you. :) good luck either way.
2006-06-29 11:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple, you should know, the bible tells us not to surround ourselves with unbelievers, and the bible also tells us not to be unequally yoked with non-believers, so it doesn't matter if he's the greatest guy in the world, you can't hang out with him like that.
2006-06-29 11:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust god to find you the right person and that person that god will find for you will believe in god to and you 2 might just grow old together it will be a strong relationship built on the lord.
2006-06-29 11:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion is hard on a relationship.
You have your beliefs and he has his.
If you are concerned with him bringing you down then maybe it is time to move on?
Or sit down and discuss it.
You know your path in life, maybe he needs to find his
2006-06-29 11:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id have him as a friend especially if he brings you down. how about the future? if hes already bringing you down. best bud for you. Kat
2006-06-29 11:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn`t accept Jesus into his heart he will go to hell, like all other chrisitans would. Then ask Jesus to forgive you for being with a blaspheme.
2006-06-29 11:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sinnistergrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre trying to folllow Christ then BREAK UP......the Bible says not to be unequally yoked....... imagine you standing on a chair and him standing on the floor and you trying to pull him up on the chair....if he is pulling too, whos gonna go which way? you are gonna fall.........you dont want that sweetheart
2006-06-29 11:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by playaninstrument 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the right relationship you won't have doubts. Good luck.
2006-06-29 11:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋