he calls me ever morning he bring me breakfast lunch dinner and he is basically there when i need him he is ever thing u what in a man but he aint leaving his girl am i the chick on the side?
2006-06-29 10:35:54 · 28 answers · asked by anguillabrowneyez2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he loved you
he wouldn't live with his gf
or have a gf
lol
2006-06-29 10:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you having more then breakfast together? If you are then yes you are the chick on the side.If you two just talk as friends then theres probably nothing wrong, The big question for me would be does his girlfriend know about you? Some of my best friends have been guys-tho some have tried to be "friends with benefits" and that's over the line. If you are the chick on the side both you and his girlfriend will be hurt and he will just go on to his next conquest. Be careful and good luck.
2006-06-29 10:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by alienkismet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at least the way you see it, to be the chick on the side, it would be that your haven a relationship with him physically, well don't ,by no mean get that started, see if he have ;aren't haven't, don't be the first to help him out on cheating on women part, because practice make prefect, is the part of this. because this would hurt you an other women, in the future. Just sat wacth for your on men and hope your men don't do the thing that this men is doing.
2006-06-29 10:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by ro101se101ma101ry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself some questions about this situation first. One being, don't you have enough self-respect to expect someone to only love and pay attention to you? Don't you believe that you deserve that? Why would you want someone who belongs to someone else? How would you feel if you were her? Why would you want someone who pretends to care about his girlfriend yet shows no concern for her feelings. Clearly this guy is a selfish, unconsiderate jackass. He doesn't deserve you or her. Move on.
2006-06-29 10:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Bon Jody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this, he breaks up with his girlfriend to be with you, everything is great, then one day down the road, he finds someone else he likes to bring breakfast, lnch & dnnr etc. , sound familiar, notice a pattern?? I am a guy and I have been there..leave him alone..for your own good.
2006-06-29 10:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by j m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly feel you might be the girl on the side, ive went through this, and I ran into a problem, tell him if he wants to be with you he needs to leave her, and go to you. If he doesnt you should know your answer
2006-06-29 10:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by jessn08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop that relationship, now! all he wants is to get into your pants, even though he tells you he's not! If he still lives with her......It's not Love he is showing you! If he leaves this girl and moves in with you, do not hold your breath, and just don't take his word on it either!
2006-06-29 10:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by im2swt4yourlips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are. What guy wouldn't take advantage of having his cake and eating it too. Call his bluff and tell him that you can no longer continue in this way, you will then see if he really loves you like he says he does. He can't do anything you won't let him do.
2006-06-29 10:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by musicisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this guy had better choose before one of you two girls choose for him by leaving. If he can't leave her, maybe he shouldn't. But if he really loves you, he'll be brave and let her go. Either way, he'll hurt, and one of the girls will hurt, but there just isn't any middle ground.
2006-06-29 10:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by campadrenalin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously cares somewhat for you, but if he definitley isn't leaving the other girl, then i think you should stay out of a romantic relationship with this man. i know its tempting, and this isn't what you want to hear, but trust me, it's not worth the hassle. there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-06-29 10:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by rachpower90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ur the chick on the side, try and find someone else if he wont leave his girlfriend
2006-06-29 10:39:41 · answer #11 · answered by sexi_lexi_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋