2006-06-29 10:20:50 · 23 answers · asked by nicenkind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No there is no limit,just as long as your responsible with what your doing
2006-06-29 10:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The term "Everything in moderation" is a good place to start. Kiss, hug, and enjoy your GF. Keep your goals in mind. WHen you decide you're old enough to find the life partner make sure you're not "in lust" as opposed to "in love".
It's good to want to be a christian. But it's hard to be a Christian when it's not convient, (i.e. like when you're hot and sweaty in the back seat of a car with a girl). In the long run typically you will be much more sucessful and happy in life if you follow Christ and do things when it's time to do those things. The real trick is finding the right girl that has your perspective. Not so easy. Their are many "pathological women" out there.
So date a long time, have sex when you decide it's time and keep your faith. There is a good website that can answer many of the questions you have:
http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com
Yes I know it has a questionable name but it's designed to hold the attention of a young man. Give it a shot.
Good luck and don't let go of your dreams.
Charles A. Becker
2006-06-29 10:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not a LIMIT per say, but do not get involved in intercourse. That can ruin some people, epsecially when it's when not being in a marraige. And a lot of the time the people who do so and are christians beat themselves up, over time knowing that they shouldnt have done that.
But just know that GOD is a forgiving God, also know that he is only forgiving to those that ask forgivness and really mean it! Not to those that appologize and humble themselves just to purposely do what they were doing before.........
2006-06-29 10:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is. Thinking that touching and kissing can be done without further desires is dangerous. You may be able to resist the tempting beauty of him/her, but eventually it will lead to more... If you want to protect this persons heart then set strong limits on touching and kissing.
2006-06-29 10:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably did not let us know how previous you're and how previous this boy is: in case you both a minimum of 18 then a kiss strong nite will be ok, yet it really is a one second kiss, no longer 25 minutes of non end kissing without arising for air. If both of your are lower than 18, a kiss on the cheek is extra ideal. enable me advise you both examine the e book observed as, "I Kissed courting so long" written by utilizing Josh Harris.
2016-10-13 23:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are asking the wrong people.Ask yourself,your parents,your minister.If it feels uncomfortable or wrong then it probably is for you. Just remember its two people in the situation not just one.Talk to your partner,they may be no where close to being ready for anything but kissing and hand holding. Good luck.
2006-06-29 10:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by alienkismet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! if you listen to most,they will say its ok...well this is what happens...first you meet a girl,then you go out,then you think hey!im gonna hold her hand,then next thing you know your kissing her,then next thing you know you have your hand up her shirt,then your hand has somehow found its way in her pants,then your both naked,then your "uuhh hum" is in her "too too" and 9 months later your a daddy!!!
see what im getting at? you start off with just a taste and then your eating the whole dang cake...happens everytime...dont let yourself be tempted by this...simply stay away from it till your married...enough said
2006-06-29 10:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do more than you feel comfortable doing.
Never push your date further than they are comfortable.
Those are the only rules you really need there.
Unless you decide to rip each others clothes off and go at it like cowboys tending sheep on a mountain, then you must also remember to use a condom.
2006-06-29 10:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Gina K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what I understand of the christian faith, its really up to you, if you take a step you're gonna wanna take another, however the trick is not taking too many steps and not being able to stop.
so you have to find a sweet spot between the extremes and not take it any farther.
2006-06-29 10:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. One thing leads to another. Our bodies are temples and we do not want to defile them.
Kissing isnt a sin neccesarily, but it can lead to sin. Be careful and trust the holy spirit.
2006-06-29 10:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by FM?FU! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋