2006-06-29 10:18:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is this misconception that you must not be "looking" IF for example your goal in life was to find a good job this in itself would be a full time job LOOKING for that job so why is it that when seeking to find that someone who you may spend the rest of your life with everyone thinks that by looking smacks of "desperation" I think that's wrong and single people like myself should be open and honest. I am not desperate and would only have a man who enhanced my life and I don't mean financially. I go to places where I feel someone would have shared interests like soul r 'n' b concerts, cinema (movie freak!) and coastal resorts, holidays etc but just have fun enjoy your day to the max but keep eyes open as men are reluctant to approach woman often for fear of rejection so eye contact is good and a smile is even better, I date a lot and often because I took initiative, why not you only live once GO for it!!
2006-06-29 10:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by demi j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant be "looking" for the perfect guy...if you have that outlook on it, he will never come.you have to just go every day doing your thing and he will come. be yourself and have fun.there is somone out there for everyone, trust me
2006-06-29 10:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard but eventually he will come along,and when he does it will be the best day of your life
2006-06-29 10:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom would say become the man you want to marry and you'll never be disappointed. what that means is be confident, self reliant and when you are you can make better choices.
2006-06-29 10:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kellie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is perfect
2006-06-29 10:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by jdhayman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 2000 years too late
2006-06-29 10:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the club
2006-06-29 10:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the US
2006-06-29 10:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by you're_a_mango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*WAVES*
2006-06-29 10:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋