2006-06-29 10:06:45 · 5 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I can tell you from experience it isn't easy. However, I now have the advantage of being much older and am able to look back on the situation a bit more objectively. First off, realize that this has nothing to do with you and their love for you. This is a relationship problem between the two of them that you did not cause and you can do nothing about. Next, continue to love your parents equally and do everything you can to make this as easy for them as possible. Take time to talk to them and don't be afraid to let them know how you are feeling and ask them questions about what is going on if you need to. Don't let this situation control your life, life will still go on and in a basic sense, nothing really is going to change all that much for you in the long run.
2006-06-29 10:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're in such a tough situation. A lot of people can relate to you, though.
I think it's really important to keep good friends close to you... that you can either visit, or call on the phone. You need to have someone you can talk to you when you're feeling really angry or really sad.
And try not to take sides. This is your parents' disagreement, not yours.
Most importantly, check to see if you can talk with the counsellor at your school. When times are tough, and the grown-ups at your house aren't able to offer you the help you need, it's nice to have a grown-up who can listen to you. A counsellor can do that. They can also give you advice specific to your situation.
Good luck, hon. Keep your chin up. Things won't stay this way forever.
2006-06-29 10:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by A Designer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you really want to know what's going on, if you do then pay close attention and hope to god it doesnt affect you in the future. If you dont want to then I say take every day as it comes and try to make the most out of it. Do your best to keep your innocence and always talk to your parents about your emotions, they are all you have
2006-06-29 10:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Caramel_apples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same way you deal when ur only ten... live with it.. sorry can't be more helpful, but you learn, u get more pressies tho lol.. sorta like them appologising lol. its not so bad, u spend time with both, it makes u tougher. i was ten in case u hadent guessed, and my sis was 5 lol. so yeh u just deal with it, they are adults let them do what they have to, dont make it harder for them.
2006-06-29 10:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them and tell them you hope since they cant be together that you hope they are willing to be their for you or suggest family counseling
2006-06-29 10:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋