2006-06-29 10:00:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope.. you will just make him dependent on you and you will hate it in the long run.
2006-06-29 10:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - if he's talking to you about money, chances are a lot of the things that he's saying is SO HE CAN GET MONEY FROM YOU.
Cons are very good at making other people believe what they want.
If he was a real man, and good for you, he would have a job and be able to stand on his own feet.
Good luck to you. I'm hoping that you're not that gullible of a person. Please check his background, talk to his parents, his friends, his ex girlfriends. Probably he's done this before.
2006-06-29 10:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I hope he didn't ask you for it, because a man should never ask a woman for money. How much money are we talking about? Don't start something your not ready to see through. He might get use to the idea and want from you all the time.
2006-06-29 10:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by bciney32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...don't bring money into a relationship. Once you do it will change things. I know it sounds weird but it does. When you give someone money they tend to equate that with the relationship and so it becomes part of what is expected and can start a bad precedent.
2006-06-29 10:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is something you don't wanna share before you are married. And even then i keep it seperate with a prenup.
If you talk about a few dollars or a dinner, maybe, everything else, no! And if you do, get it in writing, how he is planning on paying you back and by when he has to pay you back.Date it and then get it notarized and keep it safe until he pays you back.
2006-06-29 10:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by georgia1402 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to yes, but don't let him make a fool out of you and if you are giving out money like that then give me some I'm broke too!
2006-06-29 10:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by missdavis1206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your BF really needs the money then yes give it to him. It really depends how you see your relationship with him, and how he treats you.
2006-06-29 10:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by babiegirl_01_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he is your pimp, then you are obligated. He obviously doesnt have a job, do you really want to condone that? Might as well tell him "baby, you dont ever have to work i'll give you all the money you need" and start breast feeding his lazy *** as well
2006-06-29 10:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rafxsat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him money only if he really really needs it, but don't make it a commitment to yourself to give him money all the time, then he will keep asking for it.Tell him to get a job if he doesn't have one already.
2006-06-29 10:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like? and you want to give him money.... sweetheart a word from the wise, he gives you money, not the other way around... .now if payday is tomorrow, and he needs lunch today, thats fine, because hes good for it, but not for no reason
2006-06-29 10:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes give him all of your savings so that he can take another girl out while you are at work.
No just tell your bf to get a job.
2006-06-29 10:03:36 · answer #11 · answered by Baconbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋