so if a girl tells you she likes you and you go out multiple times with real good end of the night results all this going on for like a month and then all of the sudden she wont answer your calls and when I text message her she says don't ever contact her again WHAT HAPPENED????
2006-06-29 09:59:35 · 12 answers · asked by weedwagersmoke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she might have found out some dirt about you. did y'all have sex, you might of not treated the booty right. meaning it wasn't good some women like men would quit messing with someone if the sex isn't good. or her boyfriend came back, or got out of jail. if you know any of her friends them talk to them and ask them what's going on with her.
2006-06-29 10:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by K-Def 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being a woman, I would say she is mad at you for something, and, as women will do, she thinks you should know what it is without her telling you. If you go and ask her outright, she'll say it's nothing but if you don't ask her at all, it'll get even worse.
If you are prepared to face an open argument, you could wait a bit longer and she will come straight at you (you being so imperceptive and so on) but that could be the end of it.
If you really fancy her, you could email her saying something along the lines of "I really like you, and I can see that something is the matter. Do you think we could go for a drink and talk it over? Would make us both feel better."
But you have to be prepared for ANYTHING (from wrong look/word/silence, to another guy). If it is about another guy, don't make a pained face (she'll hate you for that, even if she is enjoying it right there and then). And don't forget to smile slightly and say, I still think you are making the wrong choice. That will get her thinking hard.
But then, it could be just a fit, and you would know how to handle that. Best of luck!
2006-06-29 10:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rachelgoose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that before. I didn't see how any of the dates went. Maybe you don't meet all of her standards. I would date guys even though I knew I wouldn't be their girlfriend. Even for month. The dates would go well, but I eventually ignored their phone calls too. I found better guys that met my standards. They would call me and text me, but I never replyed back to them. They eventually stop calling and texting. Sorry to say, you aren't what she is looking for. It also depends if you guys had sex too. Put more detailed info.
2006-06-29 10:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be straight with her and ask her if something happened that she didn't like. Maybe someone is spreading rumors or maybe she was seeing someone else at the same time and just went for the other guy. (hope not)
2006-06-29 10:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by smalltownangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did something to either hurt her or make her mad. Think about it.....I'm sure you'll figure it out. And if you didn't do anything.....she sounds a little odd.....be glad shes gone.
2006-06-29 10:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she met someone else. Who knows. People do weird crap. Write it off and rock on.
2006-06-29 10:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lying Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is done with you sweetie.she either found someone else or got bored with you.it does not matter you could do better without her and if she comes bac (she will) then you say it how it is.
2006-06-29 10:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She used you and found someone else that she was interrested in
2006-06-29 10:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by jojo1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to at least let you in on what her problem is.maybe she has multiple personalities.
2006-06-29 10:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by sandy v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I do know that it is not worth stressing over.
2006-06-29 10:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by jthoms9800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋