2006-06-29 09:36:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
will am 14 so yeah
2006-06-29 10:06:37 · update #1
will am 14 so yeah
2006-06-29 10:06:39 · update #2
am also worried cuz my family know the guy and his dad and at first when they found we were going out they got sooo mad at so could u imagined if they find out i might have a baby wow!also cuz since i my left my mom all of my uncles take care of me as if they were my dads so yeah am a bit scared cuz of that
2006-06-29 10:43:46 · update #3
Well, hunny you need to sit down with your parents and your uncles whoever takes care of u and tell them the truth. They might me mad at first but they will get over that and help u. Because hunny u are very young and u cant take care of yourself better yet a child. So, thats my advice to u.
2006-07-10 07:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Veronica A 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well first find out before u make nothing into something. If u r..you'll need to tell her u want to sit & talk to her one on one. Granite she'll probably be mad at first, but after she calms down she'll be more rational, & want u to get the proper medical attention. If u r don't get an abortion & leave the baby somewhere it can die. Take it to a church or adoption agency, or leave the baby at the hospital. Most place now days won't even question, they just want the baby to be safe. & if u keep the baby, especially once u start to show & or have the baby she'll be so in love w/ her grandchild. I just hope ur not in high school, cause u should have been more careful.
2006-06-29 16:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by whitetiger2137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously suggest that even if your aren't pregnant, you tell her that it's possible. This will open the lines of communication between the two of you to discuss birth control, the other dangers of unprotected sex, the emotional dangers of engaging in sexual activity at such a young age and the manipulative techniques young men might use to convince you to engage in a sexual relationship with them. I know at 14 you think you have all the answers, that you are in complete control and making your own decisions. That isn't always the case. If your Mom isn't the type to loose her cool and blow a gasket, her input and advice could be invaluable.
Act in faith instead of in fear. Believe that she only wants that which is best for you. (she loves you, You are her child) And know that even though anger may be the first emotion to show itself, with strength and courage you can work through any anger to get to the more beneficial communication that you need between you and your Mum. The vital communication that can help you make future decisions with the insight of a woman who possesses the wisdom of having been there before.
2006-07-08 10:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell her is to sit her down without your dad around to freak out (for some reason dad's always do that) and then tell her the truth. If you're unsure go and get a home pregnancy test from the store and see what it says first if you really want to be sure before saying anything to her and then risk saying anything if it's nothing. Good luck and possibly congrats?
2006-06-29 16:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the possible father is one of your 20 year old boyfriends ... that guy will get in somw SERIOUS trouble. It's illegal for the two of you to be together and even illegal for you to have sex! 16 is the legal age for someone to have sex with someone 16 to 17. 18 or older ... the father will be in deep water. If you are pregnant ... I would suggest telling your Mom that the father was under 18 but you don't know where he is (if you don't want the older guy to get in trouble) and I suggest getting an abortion. 14 is NOT the right age to have kids.
2006-06-30 00:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing to do, and that is tell her.
You will need proper medical care for the duration of your pregnancy.
Don't be stupid and in denial over your situation, dumb girls like that usually end up hiding the pregnancy for 9 months and then throwing the baby in the dumpster when it's born.
I assume you're not an adult, because if you were you wouldn't say, "tell my mom". If the person who got you pregnant is an adult they should be going to jail right now.
Tell your mother NOW!
2006-06-29 16:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysbombed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her NOW. The sooner the better. Her reactions will be the same now or next week but you will have relieved the stress of holding it inside you.
There are many things to do if you are pregnant. Your Mom can help.
If your not then you need to talk to her about birth control.
2006-06-29 16:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Gregory B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull your mom to the side and tell her you need to talk to her. Be honest about it and you will feel so much better you will have someone that loves you and that will help you make what ever decisions that need to be made. Your mom can be your best friend if you would let her. Be glad that you do have a mom to turn to.
2006-07-08 20:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Go to a planned parent hood place. if you don't know yet. They'll give you a free pregnacy test and everything is confidential. Early prenatal care is essential to a Healthy baby. Then tell your mom. She'll be mad at first but she'll get over it. and spoil her grandchild to death. (I HOPE)
2006-06-29 16:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need a little more info.......like how old are you? I have this odd feeling you just turned 14.
You really need to talk to someone, anyone for that matter. Do you have a close relative you can go to and maybe the two of you can go to your mother together?
2006-06-29 16:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by mom of 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋