before you say i'm a racist (i am not) please read
last night my mom met my girlfriend (she is black) and i am white and my mom just flipped out on both me and my girlfriend saying that it's a racial crime to date a black women and that i am a traitor she now wants nothing to with me i'm not sure what to do i love my mom but i also love my girlfriend what do i do?
2006-06-29 09:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is definitely not a racial crime. You need to get your mom to explain herself: why does she think your a traitor? what is so bad about it. If she disagrees with your choice you may have to tell you agree to disagree about the subject and tell her that you expect her to respect your life choice and show your girl respect. Perhaps she will warm up to your choice and you can change one ignorant persons point of view.
2006-06-29 09:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is obtrusive that your mom has been instilled with old teachings that interracial courting is faulty. notwithstanding, there is genuinely no longer something incorrect with courting someone from a diverse race. in the experience that your girlfriend is a good individual, this is all that concerns. i'd propose sitting down including your mom and talk the problem in the experience that your mom is that type to have an open talk. i'd ask her why she feels interracial relationships are incorrect. Ask her what she skill even as she says you're a traitor. clarify to her about your girlfriend. tell her why you want her. In different words ya gotta promote the conception to her. sure I admit that is demanding to attempt to modify a persons' racial prejudice. you could also pass about the Christian/non secular way (if she's non secular) and attitude her with the actual incontrovertible reality that Jesus loves each individual no remember what colour, race, or sexual orientation. And if we are real Christians we are to adhere to Christ's examples. In different words there aren't any logical the clarification why one might want to no longer date someone of a diverse racial heritage. So your courting including your girlfriend is a good aspect. keep courting.
2016-11-30 00:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man you got to do what you want. If you like her than tell moms to chill out. I love latin/hispanic women and I don't consider it a crime at all. More like a sweet tooth, anyways man be strong. In high school my prom date was a white girl my dad tripped and I stood up to him. The next day he apologyized to me and told me if she's a good girl than he was proud to have her date me. Some time you have to stand your ground.
2006-06-29 09:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date whom ever your attracted to.
some just learn to accept it after time
2006-06-29 09:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by m4f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋