We all know that if you gotta ask, it was terrible.
2006-06-29 09:13:40 · 31 answers · asked by gypsygirl272004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh yeh typo 'sego. But you did make me laugh.
2006-06-29 09:19:09 · update #1
Well it really depends on if you like the guy or if you plan on sleeping with the guy again. I have learned for experience never tell a guy you like it was not good, but the next time yall have sex the females should take some control to direct him in making his performance a little better every time, and be sure to let him know when he is doing it right by moaning or scratching him a little they really do remember that kind of stuff. Now if you not going to sleep with him or see him ever again tell him he sucks and move on, because if you have to ask then you already know the answer.
2006-06-29 09:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by dorleejohnson 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Just say this: A lot less talk and a lot more action, is what I need!
Guys ask, only for reassurance, even when they know the answer, because they want to rest assured, that you were happy with what happed.
If the sex is bad, just say, I need to teach you what I like in bed, so next time, I'm in charge. You got that, big squirt.
2006-06-29 09:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell him what was missing, what he did wrong, but also tell him what he did right along with the things you like about it. By doing it this way, his ego is still intact, he will keep doing the things you like but with a little more; and the things he did wrong last time, he will focus more on improoving. In the end you both will win, but honesty is the first step.
2006-06-29 09:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest -- and tell him and then leave and never see him again -- if it wasn't good to begin with it never will be -- he will keep trying but he will always fail because in the back of your mind you will remember the time when it wasn't and that is what you are primed and expect -- so no matter how hard ( LO) he tries it will never work ( sides its not like his penis will get bigger over time unless he has surgery )
2006-06-29 09:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by iznit d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel like you should be honest. If the sex was good let him or her know and if it wasn't then let him or her know that also so that they'll know what they need to do to make the next time better!
2006-06-29 09:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Reesie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could say it is OK but there are a few things that could make it better: let him know why it wasn't good but be kind in the answer. then explain if you didn't like him you wouldn't tell him.
2006-06-29 09:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most fragile thing on this planet is a guys ego. Say Yeah, next time lets try....
2006-06-29 09:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Laura B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say," why do you ask". You need to tell him exactly what you want or your gonna keep getting bad sex. Some men need to be trained.
2006-06-29 09:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. Or else he wont learn how to actually be good . But be gentle about it.
Most men who are good lovers were taught how to be so by thier women
lol
2006-06-29 09:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by atomictulip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if your in a relationship with this person? If so don't tell him right away but do suggest that you would like something different (name what you like)
2006-06-29 09:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋