ok... so last year, i just moved to a new state..... and its prtty kool here.... anywayz.. on the first day of this new place.. this guy offered to take me around, cuz he was in almost all my classes- his name is garrett, and hes a rely kool guy.. for like.. 1/2 the year i had a crush on him, and i didnt know if he felt the same....
and all of a sudden we just stopped talking, and only said "hi" evry once and a while..... now its summer time, and i saw his screen name on my friends list, so i IM'd him... we talked like we've been friends forever.. and all of a sudden...
we started talking of sexual things, and he wants to come over and "show me a good time"... and he wants to do all this stuff with me, and he said how hott i was, and how cool i am...
im so confused?? lol..... like we stopped talking, and now we wanna *****.... wats up with that?
2006-06-29 09:10:02 · 8 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told him i liked him throughtout the year on the IM last nite........
2006-06-29 09:18:43 · update #1
Sounds to me like he was scared to let you know how he felt before and when you never made a move on him he assumed you weren't interested in him. I don't like the fact that he jumps from not talking to you straight to sex. Don't let it happen that way...tell him to slow down and that you two need to spend some time dating and that your interested in developing a relationship before you even consider having sex. If you don't do this your likely to find out he gets what he wants and disappears.
2006-06-29 09:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Men have more trouble to speak about their feelings for physical reasons (brain construction) - internet is easier.
Perhaps he wanted to tell you the whole time what he thinks about you - but was too shy or unsure or what ever.
I'd give it a try - if you are confident, you'll realize quickly what's going on.
2006-06-29 16:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by swissnick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,
Sounds like he's interested in ******* you but not much else. He might be looking for an easy lay. It's up to you if you want to give in.
Personally - I would decide if I really like him and ask him if he really likes me. Then spend some quality face-to-face time with him. It's easy to get caught up in sex online. It's not so easy to do it in person.
2006-06-29 16:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was with somebody or intrested in somebody els before he met u. If u liked him then u probably should of told him how u felt.
2006-06-29 16:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by That_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know!!!! Boys are totally the same with me!! I am like what is your problem.Boys can get on my nerves sometimes,but they sure are cute!!
2006-06-29 16:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex with him because he's just a dog and once you get pregnant or something like that he might not even care about you or your baby.
2006-06-29 16:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Brejanae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thiking it's either one of those summer flings or really real. he may feel that way about you ofr real.
2006-06-29 16:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants some boootttyy..hate to say it, but its true
2006-06-29 16:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋