To make a long story short. Ladies, I wont ask DOES SIZE MATTER cause i know it has to at some extent. My girlfiend of 3 years seems to be bringing up mens private parts and talk of size, shape, width, etc... Totally out of character for her. We have a great love life but lately she seems unsatisfied with my unit without saying it. Well, I got to the bottom of it and found a tape she made with an ex in college 10 years ago. I am so insecure now. He was enormous. Im 7", thick and can always satisfy her. But, dude was atleast 12 and Dont know how it fit in there. Talkn coke can, orgasm after O, after O. I feel like I can never embarass myself by showing my thing to her knowing she has been watching this beastlike monster late at nigtht after i am asleep. it hurts to hear her get off to this while she is to tired for me. Ladies, what your honest opinion
2006-06-29 09:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by billyboy5529 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know she's been watching it? Are you sure that tape hasn't been gathering dust? Even if she has been, how do you know that it's the guys size that she's watching it for? Maybe she just likes to watch videos of herself, and would be just as happy watching one of you and her? In which case I suggest the two of you have fun making one for her (or several).
Even if it is the guy's size that appeals to her, she's not going to want to do one that size every day -- a girl gets sore for a couple of days doing something that size (watching it on tape may be a lot less uncomfortable than actually doing it). But maybe she likes a challenge now and then. If so, assuming she has a birthday or anniversary or something coming up, why don't you go online and buy her a nice dildo about the size of the one on guy in the tape? Then if she feels like having a big one in her some time, you can have fun giving it to her and watching her reactions, and then she'll owe you whatever your favourite sexual treat is (like, say, going down on you).
If size is what she wants (at least sometimes), then find a way for you to give her what she wants (and no, the pumps and pills and creams they try to sell you in spam don't work). Get creative.
2006-06-29 09:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay your right in many ways, size does matter. However if she broke up with him and they are obviously not together anymore than what are you worried about? I dont even think about my ex-boyfriends let alone everything we ever did together. I love my boyfriend 100 million, trillion, infinitely!!!! But i wouldnt stay with him if i wasnt satified and that shoud be true for most women. If the two of you have been together for any length of time then she isnt going to stay with you if she is unhappy, so quit doubting yourself because she still loves you or she wouldnt be with you!!!! I seriously doubt for 1 that she gets off to it (something about him turned her off because they arent togethter anymore) for 2 that she would stay with you if you werent what she wanted, nothing could make me stay with someone if i was unhappy/unsatisfied!!!
2006-06-29 09:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by AnOnYmOuS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a sad situation. If she is lusting after a past love then I think she needs to do some soul searching. Don't worry about your size, it has less to do with your size and more to do with her emotionally betraying you. I think you should tell her to get rid of that tape. It's only causing problems in your relationship.
2006-06-29 09:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human beings do all of it the time... If there are youthful ones in touch, or if this couple is youthful adequate that they prefer children then they ought to get married. Marriage delivers stability and normalcy for kids... provided for sure that the husband and spouse save it jointly. a great number of persons with a failed marriage or 2 between them opt for to be in dedicated relationships with no need married back. for sure it truly relies upon on what you advise by utilizing "courting" yet maximum states have undemanding-regulation marriage regulations and in case you share an same position of abode for X quantity of years you're legally sure to at least one yet another even if get married or no longer. My Father in regulation has been residing with a lady for over 2 many years and contained in the eyes of California they are married.
2016-10-13 23:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, the lady has been with you three years, don't you think you can discuss anything with her at this point? Se must have been one hurting little puppy after a session with that guy. Discuss her late night activities and I'm sure you can burn that tape together and she can live without it.
2006-06-29 09:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
size doesnt matter so dont feel insecure but i would feel alittle insecure about the relationshiip why does she still have that tape thats what really needed to be addressed here was she ever going to tell you about this????what else has she done in her past thats shes not telling i would get to the bottom of that
2006-06-29 09:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I can tell you now size doesn't matter and i she keeps going on and on about it and if you want to make it better for her then do something to satisfy her, like do something different and see how she reacts to that.
2006-06-29 09:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness. its true that size doesnt matter. Its really how they use it. I tried once with my old bf who had a big package and it was hurtin already. It didnt feel comfortable. So, dont worry. Your fine.
2006-06-29 09:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by maylacson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey my husband is pretty big and i could seriously careless about size!! he may be big but doesn't know what to do with all of it. i would rather have someone average who new how to use it to the best potential.
2006-06-29 09:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just remembering old times.hahahaha
break the fckin tape and see how she acts then.
2006-06-29 09:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by STACEY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋