When i c a guy with a really slutty girl i get irritated. I immediately think he's only with her for sex which is a reasonable assumption right? Well i don't like to be another guy's sloppy seconds & when i c this i think that guys r bein another girl's sloppy seconds (or 3rd, 4ths, 5ths, or even 6ths if she's really slutty). But aren't guys really competitive? So y r they "being content with coming in last"? I wanna no from guys (or lesbians cuz they like girls) do they like bein sum1 else's seconds.
2006-06-29 09:04:25 · 6 answers · asked by supa_fly64 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure every1 has ben someone else's seconds b4 because im sure in a relationship has probly had others b4 they got 2 u. But what i mean by sloppy seconds is for example: if ur talkin 2 some1 & they r with sum1 alredy & they say they will break up with whoever ther goin out with 2 start goin out with u. thats what i mean by "sloppy seconds". or some1 who "has ben around the block" a lot & has a rep for bein a player & u go with them then ur bein some1's sloppy seconds.
2006-06-29 09:11:41 · update #1
I know many guys who take 20ths. The girl that has been around everyone in the area is usually very much a whore, and guys know it. They do want her for the FREE sex. They don't really care that she did all of their best friends (sometimes at the same time as them). Both those guys and girls are not marriageable material. I personally stay away from them because they are not worth investing your time in. I don't sleep around because there is no point. I don't need to experience it or get practice before I'm married. Those awkward and odd moments the first time are the best. I won't trade them for anything. I know I'll screw it up, but so will she. We'll get to learn each other, and then spend the rest of our lives making it better!
I would never want to be someone else's seconds. I'm selfish, I want to be first!
2006-06-29 09:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by chemical_kenny 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello Lady,Your only sloppy seconds,3rd's,4th's,etc. If your in the same room with that person after they just had a sex act and are in your company.If you see someone say a week after they dated someone else.It's not sloppy seconds.It goes both ways with men and Ladies...
And if you really think that way about a guy and then see him later on and he is single.Your going to pass on him?...Do that and you will be single for a long time girl...
2006-06-29 16:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you assume that because you like sex you're automatically a slut? Most people enjoy sex for the pleasure they recieve from it. Unlike animals, that only do it to procreate. I happen to love pizza, Does that mean I'm fat? No. I love sports, Does that mean I'm sweaty and smell(all the time)? No. Do you really think that the world is only full of virgins waiting to fall in love? People learn from their experiences and learning what you like and don't like sexually is part of it. I hope you don't marry the first guy you have sex with because you may never know what good sex is.
2006-06-29 16:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by dctiger28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most sluts have very little real personality, so yes, that is a fair assumption. Not all guys are competitive, and I don't think most guys that are with multiple girls care if the girls are with multiple guys. As long as they get their pleasure, they're........... pleased heh.
2006-06-29 16:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge a book by it's cover... Don't be so judgemental...
How do you know that she is so promiscuous??? I've known some ladies who are business women in good jobs that are the horniest you will EVER see...
Just be careful who you are putting down, cos they could say the same about you...
2006-06-29 16:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no becuz ik a couple of girls that arent sluts that are just looking for love in the wrong guys now the guys were and are sluts so of course they just sorta went for it lied said they loved them and then after the sex left so no it can be a fair opinion but unless you know them i wouldn't suspect it.
2006-06-29 16:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by billy joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋