ok so my sis calls a lot to india to someoneand says to my mom that it is her friend but i figured out that she leis to my and my mom. its not her friend, its her bf in india and she spents all of her money calling him so what should i do? should i tell my mom? my mom really trusts my sis and thinks she can never be spoilt but now she is. so should i tell my mom? if yes how to? if no , my mom might say that it was my responsibility to tell her. what should i do
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2006-06-29 08:42:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to your sis first and hear what she has to say. if its bad try to persuade her to talk to your mom. if she won't and your desperate, then tell your mom.
2006-06-29 08:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ekozi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Option 1: Speak with your sister and tell her that it's not ok what she is doing. Be level headed and act like an adult not a meddlesome sibling. Depending on her age she may in fact listen to you.
Option 2: Insist that your mother should call the number and speak to the person on the other end. Inform whom ever it is that it's not ok to be speaking for such times to your sister and that they should correspond using letters or email.
Hopefully this helps out.
2006-06-29 16:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk 2 her and try 2 make her stop or at least tell your mom and tell her the dangers of whet this dude might be like or even do 2 her but if she doesnt stop or listen then tell her that your only other choise is to tell your mom and that you know ppl say this and they sound stupid ,but you'll thank me latter and all im trying 2 do is protect you cuz your my sis and thats my job and plus i want 2 make sure that your safe.
2006-06-29 15:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by BrinkleyNicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your Mom knows your sis is calling India, it doesnt really matter who, as long as your sis is footing the bill....I would suggest to her that she tell your Mom, but dont tell on her unless your mom asks; tell your sis that you wont tell, but you wont lie either.
2006-06-29 15:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by LuLuBelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your responsablity to to tell your mother anything.
It is a choice. If your mother asks why you didn't mention anything then you tell her this was something you did not feel comfortable dicusing with her.
Your mother will eventually find out on her own, if not, what do you care. As long as it do your sister pays for the phone bill, then you leave things allone.
2006-06-29 15:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you can do is convince your sister that she needs to be honest with your mom. Let her know you're there for her and that you will help her tell the truth if she needs you.
2006-06-29 15:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by dmonstergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell ur mother what if the bills come alot. Ur mother needs to know wants wrong with ur sis.
2006-06-29 15:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your sister? Does she have a job and can afford to pay the phone bill? If not, tell your mother.
2006-06-29 15:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by loveseat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is spending own money she has earned and not money that has been given to her then let her do it, leave her alone. But if it is really efecting her financially and bringing her down, let your mom know she will thaNK YOU LATER.
2006-06-29 15:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by true star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister. It wouldn't be good to rat your sister out. I bet your mom already has her suspicions anyways. You can advise your sister to come clean with your mom but its really her problem not yours.
2006-06-29 15:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋