okay so my boyfried told me he needed time and space and moved out last weekend. i want to make him realize that he made a big mistake and realize what we have together. how can i do this? should i try to make him jealous or ignore his calls or what?
2006-06-29 08:35:21 · 23 answers · asked by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him. He is most likely banging someone else.
2006-06-29 08:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
no never try to win somebody back by making them jealous because nine times out of ten it back fires. The person either thinks youre over them and moves on for real or it cause more tent ion . i think the best thing for you to do is to find out why he needs so much space. talk to him and ask him what it is thats making him feel uncomfortable and smothered. maybe the two of can work it out. unfortunately when people say they need time and space it usually means they have found someone else or are interested in someone else or just pain ol dont want to be in a committed relationship.
2006-06-29 15:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by dasure2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have figured this out while he was still there so he would not have needed time away from you..these are still questions that need answers to...so think back about the unresolved issue you both had that you didn't think were important enough to pay attention to ..making him jealous will only convince him he made the right choice to leave...fixing what was broken can make things work again.
2006-06-29 15:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the one thing you need to realze is this, if you do all the things that you say you're going to do such as ignore his calls or other ways to make him jealous...you'll probably be wasting your time. Why? because he moved on and you haven't. So while you do absolutely everything to get his attention, he'll be thinking you're stalking him. So my advice to you is to move on and to find who you really are and what you really want out of life. Obviously this guy already made up his mind, now its up to you to do the same. I know its now what you want to hear but it just an answer right?
I hope this helps you out
2006-06-29 15:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE ALL CALLS!!!! Did you hear me? If you are there whenever HE wants your time he will walk all over you - he can see or speak to you on YOUR time not his!!!!
Maybe answer every 1 out of 6 calls no more - keep him guessing what you're doing - it will drive him crazy and if he loves you he will come back. Men assume we cant live with out them and we'll just crumble the second they are not there. So, show him that you dont need him - and soon he will think that he actually needs you.
2006-06-29 15:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he needs space, he shouldn't be calling you. Ignore him. He pretty much ended the relationship, and if he comes back, tell him to bugger off and that you are going out with your new boyfriend in a few minutes. If you really want to piss him off, mention that your new boyfriend is going to take you to whatever your old boyfriend wanted to take you to, and that you need to pick up a pack of extra large condoms for the occasion. It may not be true, but your old boyfriend needs to feel the same pain you did.
2006-06-29 15:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Most guys hate to see girls acting 'normal' again after a break-up. They don't want to see the girl get over them. So as long as he KNOWS that you truely love him, this is a safe game to play. All you have to do is go about your every day life like nothing happened. This will make him jealous because he'll see you being happy without him. No guy wants that, even if he does love you. He wants you to be happy WITH him. Maybe that will help him open up his eyes.
2006-06-29 15:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you two had is true then he will come back. Don't bother him in anyway. You can do bad by yourself. When he calls answer the calls you should act like you don't care about any and everything he ask you. Have fun with it. Just act like you are fine that he moved out and that will piss him off and make him come back.
2006-06-29 15:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the time and space that he asked for. Only he can realize what he's lost and if he doesn't realize it, even if it hurts like hell. Which I'm sure right now it does. Leave him alone.
2006-06-29 15:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once my ex well, he kept on saying Im sorr im sorry and I just kept on ignoring him. I think it was really funny. Just answer the phone let hin talk if he aks u a question just dont answer him. It would be really funny. He will come 2 u and say do u want to try it again?
2006-06-29 16:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by katelen59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt ignore his calls just make it sound like it doesnt matter to you that he left. and when your on the phone with him all of a sudden say hold on someone is knocking on the door tell him its your friends and you have to go. make calls short. but keep in contact ask him how he is doing just make him think you dont give a two bit d*amn that he left. Thats what i would do. Good luck
2006-06-29 15:42:10 · answer #11 · answered by Crimson_Skies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋