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my girl got pregnant but i used condom every time? how come?

2006-06-29 08:18:49 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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A. One broke.
B. It fell off
C. She cheated on you.

2006-06-29 08:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Southpaw 7 · 0 0

Even if it didn't break, slip, or have a hole in it, did you take the condom off immediately afterwards? Did you them carefully wash all the semen off your penis, hands, and thighs? Or did some of it end up getting smeared on her anywhere near her vagina, hips, or thighs? Sperm are good as swimming: if she or you were sweaty afterwards, I'm guessing they could swim through that too.

So now she, and you, have three choices: abortion, have the baby and put it up for adoption, or have the baby, become parents, and raise it right. I think you should be worrying a lot more about that decision, because it's one of the biggest ones you're ever going to make.

If she decides to get an abortion, you need to go with her to the clinic, drive her home, comfort her, and you need to pay whatever it costs. That's just the way it is, if you don't do all that she's likely to leave you (since you just demonstrated that you don't care abou her and can't be trusted) and I can guarantee that every other girl in your neighbourhood is going to know about it inside two weeks, so good luck to finding anyone else.

2006-06-29 08:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

she can still get pregnant with a condom. they aren't a 100 percent effective. my friend got pregnant n they used condoms and she was on birth control. it happens. life throws curve balls at you sometimes you just gotta be ready for it. when you have sex there is always that chance of a pregnancy so be a man and stay and raise that child. it's not the babys' fault don't punish it.

2006-06-29 08:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by spontaneousfemale1 2 · 0 0

Could the condom have had a leak? were you also using a spermicide? some spermicides will weaken the condom. Did you put the condom on before you entered her? Many men are misled and think it is OK to pull out then put on a condom before ejaculation, wrong wrong wrong because sperm escape and voila "pregnant"

2006-06-29 08:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky C 4 · 0 0

ahhhhhhhhh Yeah. Where were you during sex ed? Actually where were all of you? Condoms are much less than 99 percent effective. They are more like 60-70 percent, and that is only if you are useing them right. Maybe this girl should have considered birthcontrol (i.e. the pill)

2006-06-29 08:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by meisa777 3 · 0 0

Yes your girl can get pregnant even if you use a condom. It might have a hole in it and you didn't know it or you didn't put it on all the way and your little spermies got out for a swim.

2006-06-29 08:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by griff2366 2 · 0 0

Very easily. If it was meant to be then no matter what you do it's going to happen. Your next step is to prepare for the life you created. Don't be upset at the child for endless crying or all the other stuff that will come at you. It's not the child's fault it's on it's way. Both of you need to treat the child in a mature fashion. Accept the consequences of your actions.... that's for the both of you. Take parenting classes.

2006-06-29 08:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by J P 4 · 0 0

Condoms can break which could result in pregnancy. Condoms can also come loose or fall off during sex.

2006-06-29 08:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

condoms aren't always the best protection, they don't work all the time. You should have her take birth control pills too, and be extra careful. But if she is already pregnant then you need to do something to be ready to be a father. It's your responsibility.

2006-06-29 08:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by May 3 · 0 0

Of course. Condoms are only 98% secure, so that leaves 2% of the time in failure. Read the packaging for more information.

2006-06-29 08:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0 0

Yes, sorry buddy but she sure can. Condoms are only like 97% effective. Also if you didnt use them right when you started having sex, if you only put it on right before you were about to ***, them that could have also gotten her pregnant

2006-06-29 08:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by misrdhd 2 · 0 0

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