what do you think?

Question

See what had happened was I go to my brothers baseball practice and I see my boyfriend there. But on friday I went over and sat on the bench ya know and he was talkin to some friend and so two of my friends came over and I talked to the for like 20-25 min. and we were there for 1 1/2 hours and every few min. I would look over like come on say hi something he would look back sometimes but did not do any thing. He called me that night and I told him why did you say with your hommies and not come over to say hi and he said sorry and he ment nothing by it and he aint mad at me and stuff. I'm mad what should I do? And what do you think he ment by it?
and I was like kindda alone 35 min. befor I left

Answer 1

For one reason or another guys have to act cool in front of their friends. They treat you all sweet when you're alone with them, but as soon as their friends are around it's different. If he says he's not mad at you then my guess is he was just playing it cool. But what you need to ask yourself is if this is something you're willing to deal with. If not, there are some guys out there who can be themselves no matter who's around. Good luck

Answer 2

ania,, fungirls answer was pretty good,,,she just left out some things,,alot of guys have egos and they have an image that they think they have to maintain infront of their friends,,they want to come off as real men, when in fact they dont know the meaning and are really insecure and immature,,,dont be discouraged though, cause some guys actually do grow out of this and learn to like who they are and become more secure and then what others think really wont matter, it is what they think and believe in,,,I am just a guy tryin to tell you what guys think,,hope I helped...and remember,it is nothing that you did ,,,goood luck,, Rick