why is it that when you have a child .all other things in your life seem so unimportant?

Question

my child is 6 years old .and i must say that she is my world and i wondere why some men find it so easy to walk away from there children

Answer 1

i think you discover the ultimate love. everything else fades into insignificance

Answer 2

Because the responsibility is awesome. But can you explain why, in Britain, 386000 women choose to abort their babies. It seems to be an act against nature and God. As for men walking away from their children, many don't want to but the family courts are so prejudicial. Women seem to have an unfettered right to decide whether the man is involved or not, often the woman will simply abort his child. I can't imagine a bigger insult.

I think traditional women, with a sound set of moral values, need to speak up against the appalling and immoral feminists.

Answer 3

I wonder the same thing! What's even harder to contemplate is how WOMEN walk away from their kids. I have three little girls and I would do anything in the world for them! I think that in some relationships the other parent stays away because of the other parent of the child, and some are just really selfish and honestly don't care.

Answer 4

There is a magical bond with women and their children partly because of the whole process of pregnancy and child birth and partly because of the spiritual bond. However, not all men find it easy to walk away - there are some women who walk away too and don't look back. I think it has to do with one's upbringing, and the principles one has in life. Perhaps society has also given women that special acknowledgement of being fantastic carers of children, and the man who walks away knows that a mother will do anything for their child. Look at wild animals and their behaviour with their offspring, the mother is most important part of their equation - she may even kill her spouse in order to protect her offspring. That says a lot!

Answer 5

He was never a man that learn about life. When a man walk out a child life, he been in a situation where his father did the same. he do not have the maturity or level to hold onto an responsibility. Sometimes you have to school them and tell them " You and I made what God created, once that occur, you must be here to love your sweet angel and guided her to the right path". It sad, but I know, about this because my own children do not have a man here. I am their Father and mother.

Answer 6

Most men do not have the Mothering instinct that we Mom's have, they are also aware that if they walk away the child will be well taken care of.
IF...you get down right literal about it, a woman always knows the child is hers..., can a man say that? NO!

Answer 7

I have a 3 month old and she means the world to me. My hole life has changed since. Little things dont matter much to me anymore. Like buying expensive clothes or perfumes. I used to shop at Macy's but now its Target and Walmart. I think that men walk because they are not responsible like women are. Some men just think that they do not have to pay child support like my babys dad he thinks this way. He only has seened her 2 times. Neve calls to see how she is doing.

Answer 8

I dont have children yet and have been married 12 yrs now, i understand that the child comes first before everything else and that other things become less important - I think that parents need time to themselves too and enjoy what they want to without kids, ie get a babysitter and enjoy what interests you.

Answer 9

I think once you have a child; the world changes completely. Your perspective changes and you are more concerned with the future. I thought I would not be so in awe as my child grew (10 years old) and ... Surprise!!! I am still in awe every day. I see things through his eyes so often. You appreciate things more as well!

Answer 10

Child birth is a blessing from God.It signifys the ultimate love between God and man.By giving the gift of life to man we are ensured a place in his kingdom.I THINK

Answer 11

Because that is how God intended it to be. Our children didn't ask to be here, we chose for them to be here. They are truly the greatest gift that God gives us. They should always come first and be the center of your universe. Everything you do should be for them and because of them.

I am like you, I do not know how anyone could walk away from their children. They are a part of you, how could you leave someone who is a physical part of you?