Like said b4, my boyfriend has been basically cheating on me for the last year, with my "bestfriend". we've been 2gether for 3yrs. For the 3 yrs that my bf and I have been talking, I've been gettin in easy with his best friend. Like every time I had a problem I kinda went to 2 my boyfriends bestfriend...who at the time was talking 2 ,my bestfriend. Like double dating.
My boyfriends bestfriend and I have never really done anything..in the past...but recently..when I needed someone 2 talk 2 about my guy...he was there..and well...okay we knew it was wrong...what we did...But my boyfriend deserved it right...he took my bestfriend..so I took his. But even though I was doin it to get back at him I feel bad...But his bestfriend really wants 2 be with me, and so do I with him! I know its wrong....but Ladies THE BROTHA IS FINE(the bestfriend)
what should I do???
2006-06-29 07:51:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
2006-06-29 07:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should chill out for a while. You don't need to "bang" the "fine brotha". Be the bigger person. Leave the boyfriend. Take a break. And then find a guy to go out with. You don't have to constantly keep a boyfriend in your life...or any man for that matter. Good luck.
2006-06-29 07:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by pulchritudinous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain, you should have left your ill boyfriend, who became abducted and left for lifeless and spent days contained in the medical institution, mendacity on the lavatory floor in discomfort. what's incorrect with your sister? And your father and mother? and they does no longer show you how to help seek for for him? For God's sake, for sure once you're in college, you're an adult and responsible of your man or woman judgements. And in case your household is that heartless you should merely get faraway from them. They sound like undesirable human beings, a lot so that you do not even comprehend a thanks to act in a classic, loving way. for sure you could help you a loved one up even as they fall contained in the bathe!
2016-10-13 23:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooookay....didn't understand a lot of what you said, but here goes. And it goes back to an old adage that your mother probably taught you: TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT! Grow up, dump both of them, stop sleeping around before you get pregnant or a disease, concentrate on school or work. Why would you want to be with a guy who cheats on you anyway. Have some self-esteem and move on.
2006-06-29 07:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by tiggyman41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to end it with both of these guys. I don't know why you stay with the boyfriend when you know he's been cheating on you FOR A YEAR! Then you go sleeping around with another guy. I'd bet money if you start dating this new guy, he'd have no problem with stepping out on you since he got you to do it. You've already established that neither of you is trustworthy.
2006-06-29 07:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have problems for a long time .Get rid of your boyfreinds an start new .Sounds like alot of drama.You don't need that in your life.Am sure there is alot of BROTHAS out there that would love to be with you.Then again no body wants a Drama Queen its just bad news.It all starts with respect.Sounds like nobody respects anybody in your group.
2006-06-29 08:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by amado o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting him down when you are doing the same thing.
2 wrongs do not make a right.
Both of you need to move on.
Neither of you will ever be trusted again.
2006-06-29 07:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well since you know your man is cheatin on you with your best friend (who by the way cant be considered a best friend for doing somethin like that to you) why not just tell him the truth because no matter what you do to him it could never compare to what hes already been doing to you... so just have a mutual break up.. cut the crap and get with eachothers best friends how bout that...
2006-06-29 07:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by jerard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for an upgrade. Life's too short, honey, so strike while the iron's hot. You'll feel better afterwards.
2006-06-29 07:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by seenon6continents 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this best friend is gonna go bang his best friends girl then he's not such a great guy either, leave both of them and find a honest guy.
2006-06-29 08:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by SarcasticAnomaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um why are you dating someone who has been cheating on you for a year?
2015-12-26 19:29:54 · answer #11 · answered by Emma-Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋