Guys don't like talking on the phone that much. We prefer to see you in person because we don't only like to hear your voice but see your body movements when we are talking. It lets us know that we are hitting every brownie point when we see you finch, and hair playing. Also you women are more gutsy to talk on the phone and not in person which we don't like.
2006-06-29 07:52:46
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think their is a cure for being distracted. I was one of those guys watching TV or playing a video game while trying to hold a conversation with my girl. I realized like most men we can't focus on more than one thing at a time. There is a actual study that says women are better at multitasking than men. For me when talk to my girl I just shut everything off and go somewhere quiet to focus on what she is saying. This is something he is going to have to do
The best advise I can give is to sit down and tell him your concerns.
Remember some guys just are not phone talkers. I wasn't in the beginning
2006-06-29 07:54:15
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answered by Doogle 2
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Let's delve a little deeper into this...
The reason guys hate talking on the phone is because unlike women they can't talk on the and... and ANYTHING! They don't multi-task and even if you send a guy an e-mail with more than two sentences where they could easily go back read over and over again... pffffft! Forget it! He's just acting all distracted, aloof, call it what you will because their either incapable of, or can't be bothered to focus in that manner. It's a guy thing. *sigh* Mine will kill bugs and take out the trash on command. *shrug*
2006-06-29 08:49:45
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answered by nimbleminx 5
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although what everyone else has said has some what of a smidgen of truth, some guys, (the better ones by the way) dont like to talk on the phone not because he doesn't like to talk to you, but because he prefers face to face interaction and can respond better to that. I mean if he can have a long meaningful conversation with you while you are together in person but your phone conversations suck, it just means that he responds better to face to face interaction, most people do, it is this way that we can see your facial expressions, your body gestures, your reactions, its a more fulfilling conversation/interaction, it doesn't nessicarily mean he "just wants your body"... or it could also mean he just has a shorter attention span than you when it comes to phone conversations (indirect interaction)... if his emails are short this is also an indication of this because you are not interacting with the person directly, you are interacting with the computer, or the phone in this case, its not the same...
or you just talk too much about what you ate for lunch and the color of your new shoes you bought, guys dont wanna hear that crap...
2006-06-29 07:54:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Your not going to "cure this"....it basic nature. The opposite sex is "always" visually stimulating...even more so when preceived subjectively as "attractive". Unseen verbal communication is simply not as potent as when accompanied by visual stimulations...ie. sight. Communication especially between the sexes is A LOT more than simply words. You might consider taking the other standpoint....be complemented that guys look forward to SEEING you and less offended that your phone conversations don't seem to generate as much attention. FWIW I find women VERY verbal oriented and as a man, I am far more visually oriented. There's nothing wrong with either sterotype but they tend to be true....men are from Mars and women are from Venus....
2006-06-29 07:49:16
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answered by Capt 5
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Some people are not phone people. Sitting and talking to someone on the phone for hours on end is not fun for me. In fact, if you are on the phone too long, I'll throw on my headset and put in a video game. Believe me, a lot of people don't like it and would rather come see you face to face than stay on the phone.
2006-06-29 07:48:45
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answered by King H 6
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As a guy I would rather see you in person so I can see your beautiful face. You can get more from a face-to-face conversation than with one on the phone. There are many things that are made clearer when facial expressions/body language can be seen.
2006-06-29 07:51:59
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answered by lifeinquestion 3
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A "RomanAries", named Carlito. Face it, girls like "YOU" spend more time talking about dreamy weddings with white sugarcain on top of your cake, than anything else that actually matters. Try growing your own "Rosegarden" and call it the perfect place to become the great "EYE" am, then maybe you will come to know why a guy like me has surely lost his way, ten times over.
2006-06-29 07:56:42
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answered by romaniascott 4
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it is just a proven fact that most men dont like talking on the phone it does not keep thier interest, wich is why they do much better when you go out with them and have fun, so dont be mad at them, i as a lady even loose interest on the phone sometimes, its not that i dont love my husband cause i do alot, but just talking forever on the phone just makes it borring, but as soon as he comes home i am all open for conversation!
2006-06-29 07:46:19
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answered by Blonds Rock 4
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A lot of guys don't like to talk on the phone while girls are notorious for gabbing. Personally, I hate talking on the phone.
2006-06-29 07:45:24
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answered by margarita 7
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