help
2006-06-29 07:35:50 · 22 answers · asked by s60rfc 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
im basicly afraid of the whole thing im mean trying to find where to go and mainly trying to fit in
2006-06-29 07:46:22 · update #1
High school ends. No matter how much you dislike it, it ends. Just keep telling yourself that.
2006-06-29 07:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid. You will get used to it. Fear is not real. If you have some friends than be with them. If not make some.
Join a club with kids your age. Don't worry. It will be OK.
If something is really wrong like bullying or drugs or something like that then YOU MUST TELL YOUR PARENTS AND A TEACHER.
Otherwise go to school and be cool! Just be yourself and don't let anybody make you feel bad. You are a good person and just as good as anybody else!
Good luck. I will be wishing you all the best. I am sending you some of my magic protection powers from the land of Good!
King Ouros
2006-06-29 14:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, only you can do that. I can tell you every moment of every day that I had a great time in high school, it was a lot of fun and I enjoyed it, but that still won't change your opinion of it. For one, stop worrying about it. After all, you are going whether you are scared or not, so why be scared? It's like fearing death. It'll happen, you can't stop it, so why be scared of what is going to happen anyway.
2006-06-29 14:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be afraid of highschool I was like that too but alot of the time the stuff you hear is myths...... the seniors were always nice to me i have friends in every grade.... my best advice it to stay invloved (band, dance guard, asu.......) i no that in our marching band all the people are nice just try to find one thing to do that you realy enjoy where there is a lot of nice people...... well thats the best advice i got so yeah..... good luck hope it all works out good
2006-06-29 14:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell that there is nothing to fear. After the first week you will be wondering why you were worried so much. Every kid thinks the same thing when they are going to a bigger school. You will love it.
2006-06-29 14:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent said what your fears ar specifically, so I will say it is of the utmost importance that you don't try to be anything other than yourself once you get there. remain true to yourself, do not compromise, know the difference between right and wrong, stick up for whoever you think is right and ignore the jerks..OH, yeah, one more thing..make the best of it, youll realize later that it was the best time of your life, dont blow it STUDY and have fun
2006-06-29 14:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by janeeneee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll be a Junior in high school this fall, and let me tell you something, there is really nothing to worry about. get out this summer and hang out with you friends, and don't worry about whats going to happen when school starts back up. as long as your happy, confident, and open to new things, you'll be just fine! good luck girl!
2006-06-29 14:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by laciarlene89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which fears?
Bullies and guns? not much you can do to stop them. No friends? find your favorite after school activity and jump right in. Social Anxiety? it's not so bad in highschool..........just stop listening to the negative news and you'll be fine
2006-06-29 14:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ananke402 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what aspect(s) of high school are causing those fears. It would be helpful to have a little more detail about what exactly you aren't looking forward to about it.
2006-06-29 14:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen gal...why be scared at all...true its complicated, and gossipy place...but get over it...never do things that u wouldnt want done to you...dont ***** abt other ppl...stand up for ur rights and dont be scared...do ur wrk and just be cool.....and remember ppl who think they are too cool are really not that cool...just be really true to ur friends...well that should get u through...and dont worry..its damn good fun...cheerup, and laugh and have a good time..!
2006-06-29 14:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem last year. just be you. don't worry about what others think of you and you will be fine. just try being friendly to everyone unless you live in Philly. then don't look at anyone. lol
2006-06-29 14:39:13 · answer #11 · answered by Adri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋