My boyfriend is very jelous. When I hang out with my guy friends he gets even more jelous! He tells me that he's trying but can't help it! What should I do?
2006-06-29 06:55:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um.....leave him, duh
2006-06-29 06:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by BTB 10/04/08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend gets jelous and mad, then he is not a very good boyfriend. He needs to know that he can Trust you and know that you would never do anything to hurt him. And so if he doesn't know that,then you need to either talk to him or find a new boyfriend.
2006-06-29 14:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by regina03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an emotional issue, but you should place it in a logical discussion. You should sit down with him and try to find out where the jealousy comes in. Has he been cheated on before? Is there something in particular that he feels insecure over? Finding the root to his condition will be a big step towards him becoming more accepting of the situation.
2006-06-29 13:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried inviting him along to join you when you're with your guy friends? If he's never met them before, it might ease his mind to meet these guys. If he has met them and he still gives you this kind of problem, I'd consider leaving simply because if there is no trust, there is no real relationship. If he truly loves you, he will trust you no matter who you are with or where you are. No one wants a paranoid boyfriend that you have to walk on eggshells around. It can also be a sign of bad things to come as guys like that are prone to mental and/or physical abuse. Don't stand for being treated like that, ok? Good luck to you!
2006-06-29 14:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you and your boyfriend should sit down and really talk and you'll tell each other how you'll feel. it is normal for him to be jealous because he is your boyfriend and by him being jealous it's showing his sensitive side and showing that he really care. but if you tell him the reason you hang with more males then females is because females are funny acting sometimes and the boys you hang with don't act like that I'm sure he would understand how you feel.
2006-06-29 14:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by THAT DEAL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm. well if hes jelous than that means that theres something about you that obviously he knows other people want. just lay cool and tell him theres nothing to worry about. everything will be fine.
good luck hun <3
2006-06-29 13:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by lalaloveeeyou_x33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his jealousy is his problem not yours. you should not have to give up your friends because he is insecure. the only way he will ever be able to change is if he realizes that the problem is his and not yours and gets help for it. if he refuses to accept his problem then go ahead and save yourself the future heartache and end it. perhaps that will be the kick in the butt he needs to realize that his behavior is not acceptable.
2006-06-29 14:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For first if you know he is jealous why keep doing it I know it is ok to have male friends but ask yourself are they worth losing your boyfriend over? Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-06-29 14:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by flywith_meout_ofbody2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to come hang w/you and your guy friends, maybe he'd even like them too. If he can't tell him to get over it before it gets him.
2006-06-29 14:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by STACEY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well explain to him that their just ur friends if u liked them u would be goin out with them instead of him! i had a guy who liked me and every time i talked 2 a nother boy he would turn his bac and i knew he was so jealous!
2006-06-29 13:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God i hate that!! i 2 have alot of guy friends (cuz for me girls seem to be more catty and they get mad at you for everything), but i found that he's just insecure with himself and he'sjealous that you're gonna cheat on him with one of your friends
2006-06-29 13:59:58 · answer #11 · answered by i love NOLA! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋