ok we met and sleep togetehrte same night the we did it again the next day, we have seen each other once since then, we talk everyday, I call mostly and it is for 5 minutes, I am into him do you think he is into me?
2006-06-29 06:28:48 · 30 answers · asked by YOU1&ONLYU 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he's not interested at all.
Sorry girl, but let me see if I can break this down into bite size nibblets for you... In a relationship, the guy's main objective is sex. There are other benefits and purposes for being with you, but if a girl doesn't have a kitty cat, there's nothing for the dog to chase.
Guys really are like dog, and here's the thing of it... why will he jump through the hoops of a relationship if he has already gotten to nuzzle through your bag of treats. Once you've fed him, he's not hungry anymore, that's just common sense, but if you really like a guy, don't give him sex, EVER
Make him wait and you'll see if he really likes you.
2006-06-29 06:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are possible after a one-night stand. After all, it is just sex.
But if the only thing you have in common are the flings, then it won't evolve into a meaningful relationship. You need more than physical attraction. Talking will reveal more. If you're just sweating and grunting, you won't find out if you have enough for a relationship.
Even a one-night stand is technically a relationship, but it's not something to base on a marriage on.
As a former lover said of me, "He doesn't do one-night stands; he's more into repeated flings." If you are aware that the relationship is probably just physical, then you'll do fine. If you are falling for him, let him know. If he doesn't feel the same way, it's better you suffer that pain now than after you've developed a deep-seated love for him.
2006-06-29 06:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rev Kev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's into you because you do all the calling. I have heard it's possible to have a relationship after a one night stand, but I don't do those because in my opinion, that kind of makes yo a whore. Anyways, it sounds to me like you are making most of the effort and he is just being nice to you. You only talk everyday because you are calling him. I don't think he wants you for more than just sex.
2006-06-29 06:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ever call you? Have you ever been together when it's not about sex? If either of those were answered "no", then he's probably just staying in touch with you so he'll have someone the next time he wants sex. I'd suggest asking him out to dinner or a movie and NOT ending the night in sex. See how he acts and then you should have your answer!
2006-06-29 06:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he is into you. He already got what he wanted, twice. Since you are doing all the calling, that's a sure sign that it was just a one night stand or a booty call as the call it!
2006-06-29 06:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But now you might want to concentrate on that part - starting a relationship. But if he is premised that this is based on sex, the proceed with caution.
There's this old saying: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
Think about it.
2006-06-29 06:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication
Communication
Communication
Don't ask us... ask him. Any relationship MUST be founded in strong and open communication. Just because a relationship starts as being sexual, doesn't mean that is all it has to be. Talk to him, see how he feels... that's the only way.
2006-06-29 06:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by John Tennison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but most one night stands are just that some do become more than that but very few..good luck I hope you end up beign with him.
2006-06-29 06:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We've been married for 8 years now. When there's heat, there's heat! Just don't be a begger or a bootty call.
2006-06-29 06:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your both into eachother and yes you can have a relationship after a onenight stand.
2006-06-29 06:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋