My girlfriend and I broke up after almost 3 years, and almost immediately, she started dating another guy. She kept calling me and telling me she loved me and misses me, but I feel that if she really did, we wouldn't have broken up and she would be with me. She also has been lying nonstop to her friends and me, and denies it. I I told her not to talk to me until she had made some decisions and could serioustly talk to me. What is her deal and am I doing the right thing? And if she comes back around, should I take her back?
2006-06-29 06:25:27 · 14 answers · asked by BONE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on if she lies she is not so much inlove with you as she says. a relationship is based on trust and honesty
2006-06-29 06:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer an expert yet you hardly pronounced something about your lengthy distance significant different are you certain that's what you somewhat want or were you such as her because you've been lonely? this somewhat sounds like a question for you to be asking of your self particularly than a talk board because in all honesty you should do what your heart tells you no longer human beings on a talk board (jointly with me) XD so my suggestion is persist with your heart and attempt no longer to fall for element that sound too strong to be real because you could most likely lose something that later you comprehend meant an undesirable lot to you. sleep on it and it would look clearer contained in the morning and strong success with any decision you're making
2016-10-13 23:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u did the right thing! I hate to say this but from the sounds of it she is keeping you on the backburner incase there isnt anything better out there. It almost sounds like she got scarred, u guys are prob. pretty young and after 3 years she prob. got bored or whatever you want to call it and even though she "loves" you she wants to see what else is out there, which is normal but she shouldnt keep you on the back burner just incase. Try to move on and if she comes back and you still want her then you atleast know she got the "what else is out there" out of her system. Good Luck
2006-06-29 06:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by connys1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what she was lying about and how important it was. Trust is an important issue in any relationship, and once that's undermined, its hard to get back together with that person. Ask yourself if you can seriously trust her and then you can decide whether or not you are doing the right thing and if you should take her back.
2006-06-29 06:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she messed around with that person she is with. If she did, then she is kind of whorish and you don't need that. But if she was just looking for love in the wrong places, then you can't blame her. Show that you care more often in the relationship and she will show it back!
2006-06-29 06:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to seperate after a three long years, it is realy heart breaking.Dear let me ask you some thing, what was your (both of yours) relationship built on,? what is that you expected from her, and she from you, dear if it was love, that also unconditional love, than it would not have happened this way.
so spend some time knowing yourself and herself, the best way to do it is to go into the presence of God, and take the help our JESUS. than you both will know the sacrificial love. and live happily.
2006-06-29 06:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that happened, but if she is/was like that the whole tyme you were dating, she's not going to change that fast. I wouldn't go back out w/ her. I know it must be hard, but you should move on.
2006-06-29 06:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by K8lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is already dating (moved on) then no don't take her back. i mean if you are already dating then move on. It seems that she does not care about the way you feel. Keep that in consideration.
2006-06-29 06:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Vannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still like her then u can take her back.
2006-06-29 06:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her, she just wants a piece of a$$ so let her be...u did the right thing
2006-06-29 06:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋