ummm im still inlove with my exs boyfriend and he still loves me well i hope and i dont know if i should call him or not becasue last night ikinda told him that i dont think we should be friends and he was like why and i told him i was hurtin and he told me he was really sorry but he wants us to be friends so.........should i be friends wiht him and should i call him and go over there?
2006-06-29 06:16:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should not call him often but keep in touch (healing process). Try doing something else with other friends to occupy your time. Your heart will not heal over night or in one week so don't expect it to. How you are feeling is normal but do not go over to his place. It will help if you did not see him anytime soon. If you don't think you can handle being friends right now then let some time pass by. Good Luck!!
2006-06-29 06:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what you ask us, you're probably going to go do it anyway. And if you still love him etc, why did you break up instead of trying to work out the problem.
Sounds like you need to just grow up a bit. Being friends with an ex, is never a good idea. It just prolongs the hurt and gives one of the parties involved false hope that they may get back together again.
don't be a possessive obsessive girl.
He may just be saying he wants to be friends because he's immature and doesn't want to hurt your feelings, when in the long run that's exactly what he's going to do.
Find a new man sweetheart.
2006-06-29 13:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough Sara beacause dating some one and beng friends with some one you almost see him with two different sets of eyes. One pair of eyes as his gf, and now adjusting to the new pair of eye as a friend. Usually when you break up you need that time apart so you can adjust to how your going to be seeing this person. It always seems like a good idea to remain friends and hang out but don't be afraid to take some time to get used to not being with him and not being reminded of good/bad things about being with him and it's hard to do when your chilling hanging out as Freinds though. I hope that was clear.
2006-06-29 13:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel as though you can't just be friends then tell him. Try and restart the relationship, but if he is hesitant then don't push it. You might have to move on all together for a while before being able to "just be friends" with him.
2006-06-29 13:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by brookecapulet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy says he only wants to be friends, he only wants to be friends. The best you'll get is friends with privileges. He's got someone else, let HIM go and get on with your life!
2006-06-29 13:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends..why did you guys break up in the 1st place? Honestly, don't call him, especially if you guys end up having sex...not healthy...get over him..it's always hard but time will heal...
2006-06-29 13:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by dragon76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him for sure. When u hit a guy hard like that, he will most likely not call back. We tend to take stuff like that quite literal.
2006-06-29 13:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by monomat99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should call him. you love he and you should see if you can get back together. i ended a friendship with my ex and that was the worse thing i ever done. we have both moved on but i still love him.
2006-06-29 13:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by LASHANNA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over there and talk things out...
Apparently you both still care about each other , maybe you could work out your problems.
Good Luck.
2006-06-29 13:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on!!! Find what else is out there! & NO dont call him!! If it happens it happens dont try to rush it!!
2006-06-29 13:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋