YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT IS MARRIED AND YOU OF COURSE HAVE FEELINGS FOR THIS PERSON BUT AT TIMES YOU SECOND GUESS THE SITUATION AND YOU ALSO THINK THIS PERSON MIGHT BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE BESIDES HUSBAND/WIFE AND URSELF. WHAT WOULD YOU THINK?
2006-06-29 06:13:45 · 15 answers · asked by BRWN&SWEET 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think that this person is not worth my time. that this person who is already cheating on his/her spouse might be cheating on me has definite problems with commitment and should not be in a relationship at all.
2006-06-29 06:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Man_With_No_Name 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you shouldnt have to DEAL with anything in a relationship. Secondly, how would you feel if you were his wife? You shouldn't second rate yourself. You should have more respect and self esteem to realize that you should always come first. Not second. Why would you want to be with someone who isn't even gonna be with you (he's married, hello!!!!) I mean, should it matter if he does see someone else besides you and his wife. A relationship has only TWO PEOPLE NOT THREE!!!
2006-06-29 13:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by cali_gal716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one cannot make heart love someone or not to love someone,this is very natural to fall in love with anyone.so u cant help out to not to have feelings for that married man.exactly only u can know by the reactions and behaviour of that man that he is having other affairs also or not.my wise advise would b for u not to get involved with that man as u will spoil lives(wife and may his children).this could b very difficullt for u but b strong and dont let play with ur feelings.all the best.
2006-06-29 13:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by zoya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never allow myself to be in such a relationship to start with.Why would you question him being faithful to you?He obviously has no problems cheating on his wife so of course he won't be true to u.You are just someone to waste time with and have sex.Don't expect this to be anymore than you already know it is.They best thing to do would be to move on and find a man that is unattached.
2006-06-29 13:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by rachellynn200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a sticky situation! The married cheater obviously has no regard for his/her spouse. You should NOT be in that situation at all, because you might get cut messing around with that.
2006-06-29 13:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing second fiddle isn't good at all. Your worth being number one. When its said and done you'll be the one to get cut off in his worse case scenario. If he is cheating on his wife, what makes you so special he's not cheating on you. Do yourself a favor find someone in which you can be theirs and they can be yours. Your worth that I'm sure!
2006-06-29 13:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by newburg_2_fine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats no good,,,
if ever you wanna engage urself in such situation,, better think more than 10x
it can never be good,, in the eyes of God,,,
better face the reality that he/she can never be urs,,
and if yoiu try taking him/her from his/her family,,
well,, think again,,,
what if those things will happen to you and your family,,
what would you think will happen,,,
better pray and ask God's guidance and put Him in everything you do so that you wont get lost!!
God bless!!!
2006-06-29 13:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by l_e_a_h_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this someone is MARRIED!! That is the big red flag there!!!! U need to move on!!!
2006-06-29 13:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that. Your're asking for a soap opera life. I thought my relationship was drama filled. You win!
2006-06-29 13:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him! he's just using you, he doensnt really love you!he's a cheater and a loser and you need to forget about him and move on and find someone who really wants to be with you and not other women too!
2006-06-29 13:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋