My daughter is turning 11 years old and one thing she wants for her birthday is to meet her biological father. her father decided along time ago that he wouldnt be in her life cause at the time he said he didnt want any childern.She wants to meet him know. Hes not a bad guy from what i know of him.. but i havent spoke to him since she was 6 months old . so my question is do you think i should try to contact him? or just leave things the way they are? i dont want to disapoint my daughter?
2006-06-29 06:07:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not about you and even though he still may not want to be bothered, you owe it to your daughter to at least "try". Perhaps the assshole is mature now and see that like it or not he has a child in this world who wants and possibly needs him in her life.
2006-06-29 06:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasnt attempted to get with her, he doesnt deserve to meet her. Tell her that he didnt want any part of her and she means the world to you. I am 34 and havent seen my father since i was 4. He was more interested in playing than being my dad. My mom has tred real hard in the last couple of years to get us together, but I have no desire. He doesnt deserve to be a part of my life nor my kids lives.
2006-06-29 13:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her father and ask him. His not a good father but if she wants to meet him try your best.
2006-06-29 13:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely spend some time with him to make sure he hasn't changed too much and is still a decent guy. As long as he's not completely bad it should help your daughter to atleast know who he is.
2006-06-29 13:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by s v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should contact her father because if she wants to know why not show it? it'll probably be the best birthday present she'll have but if her dad tries to hurt her or something i would say no
2006-06-29 13:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact him. if she really wants to find out let her find out. it is not right to keep the truth away. i know how she feels. i have never met my biological dad either and i wish to meet him and my older siblings. so yes contact him. and let her see the truth.
2006-06-29 13:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her meet him!Even if he doesn't want anything to do with her she need to know that and its better sooner than later. You don't want her to blame you for holding her back on this. Prepare her and let her know that he didn't want anything to do with her then and he might not now.so sad,good luck!
2006-06-29 13:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best to get ahold of him if you dont your daughter will resent you for it
2006-06-29 13:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by CHARLES A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always just ask him.
2006-06-29 13:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Silvermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no harm in asking him.
2006-06-29 13:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋