How do I tell my parents im pregant and im only 15?

Question

and how do i tell my boyfriends its not his

and 2 evrybody me and my boyfriend had broke up 4 a while and then i sex wit this dude i been knowing for a long time. But it wasnt on purpose the rubber broke as he was pulling out. and no i am not a hoe or nuthin and i dont want 2 have an abortion

Answer 1

id tell my parents and get that over with because they are the ones that are going to help you anyways...chances are he would take off even if it was his....

then, i would consider my options if i were you.... i dont knwo what you beleive in, but im gonna say that you should think about abortion... it is an alternative, your not going to hell for doing it, and your life wont be totally ruined.... at 15 are you honestly ready to give your life to someone else? are you ready to not be able to be a normal teenager? to have to figure out a way to not only finish school, take care of a baby, and plan some kind of future for he two of you, but also have to work & do all of this alone?

ive been there, and trust me as hard as it was it was the best thing i could have done for myself and that child, because at 18 i wasnt prepared to give that baby the life it deserved....

.........as far as telling your boyfriend.... your just gonna have to be honest about that one... because it would be wrong of you not to

good luck!!

Answer 2

I wouldn't even bother with your boyfriend. Actually the babe could be his, you can't be sure without a paternity test. If you are afraid your parents may go nuts, I would suggest meeting with the school couselor first and arrange for all of you to meet together. Otherwise, just tell your parents you have something really important and scary that you want to talk to them about. Don't do this when they are in a rush to go somewhere or do something, do it on an easy Saturday morning when no one has any plans and everyone is calm and relaxed. Then just tell them. I wouldn't go into the whole break up, other boy details. If they want to know who the father is then tell them who you think it is. If they want to know why you aren't sure, just tell them you've had sex with more than one person. But if they want to know why you've done that, re-direct them to the real issue at hand. You are pregnant, you're scared, you don't know what to do, and you need their support. Tell them you don't want an abortion but be mature enough to listen to their advice on the matter. Good luck.

Answer 3

Good for you for being unwilling to kill your child! No matter what your situation, it is not your baby's fault, and he or she doesn't deserve to die.

Here's some advice on telling your parents you are pregnant:

Advice on Telling Parents About a Pregnancy:
http://lifehouse.glorifyjesus.com/questions/pregnancy/tellingparents.html

As for your boyfriend, just be blunt. Say, "This is hard for me to say, but you need to know the truth. I am pregnant, and the baby is not yours." If it makes you feel safer, have a trusted friend or family member with you.

I really recommend that you go to a pregnancy care center near you right away. All of their services are totally free and confidential. They can help get you signed up for financial, medical, and legal assistance, find you a safe place to stay if you need it, give you free maternity and baby supplies, and provide you with counseling and emotional support. They can even help you tell your parents or boyfriend if you would like. Some centers can give you a free ultrasound, so you can see your baby, too! Find a center near you here:
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

You may also be interested in checking out:

Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

And, if anyone tries to pressure you into an abortion, it will be good to know the facts:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Answer 4

Oh my god!!!! Okay, I know it's diffcult to tell your parents and your boyfriend about this, but look your stomach will get bigger and bigger every single day. They will find out anyway, so why not talk to your parent about this. Tell them that you are sorry. Maybe your parents are nice enough to take you to the hospital to do something and then you wont have the baby anymore(sry, I forgot what is that call) Or tlk to your boyfriend about this, and when you think he understands that you are worry and stuff, tell him that the baby is not his. I think he will understand if he is a good bf.

This will be hard for you, too young to be pregant. But that's life.

Hope this will be alright for you. Good luck!

Answer 5

Well, the best bet is to be honest early on. If you try and hide it or tell even little white lies now, it will make it much harder. You're going to have to trust that your parents love you enough to take the truth. In your boyfriend's case, if he runs away, he wasn't the right guy for you. It's better to learn that now than in a few years. You're young and have a long life with these people. Be open and honest.

Answer 6

Sit down with them. Take it step by step in the conversation until you get to the pregnate part. tell your parents about the relationship thing going on. Then tell them that your pregnate. Dont just rush into it. I dont know anything about pregnacy. I am 15 myself but that's would I would do if I had to let out a confession such as pregnacy.

Answer 7

Girl keep it and tell your parents when you feel like your ready the same with your BF if he's not ready and he cusses you out girl just move on and you'll make it through life good luck this is a real touching story i'll be praying for you what's your name so i can say it in my prayers i'm a christian don't worry we the same age

Answer 8

Nothing good cam come from having a child at your age.
Sit down with your parents and ask them to go with you to the doctor for an abortion.

As far as the boyfriend, you will have to tell your bf and the father, and they will both break up with you.

Answer 9

Seems to be you are in a pickle. The best way to tell your parents is to sit them down at the table and just say it. Tell them you are scared and need their help. They may yell, they will be stunned for sure. 15 is way too young to be having sex but what is done is done. To make sure you get the best health check ups for you and your baby is to tell them right away.
As for your boyfriend, just tell him. He may not want to stay with you because of your infidelity but at least he will know.

Answer 10

i would talk to your doctor about it and have them help you....doctors can get you appointments with family counselors and they will help you professionally....dont take the advice of people on the internet it will never work out well at all...as for the boyfriend thing i dont know what to tell you but tell your parents first then break it to your bf gently...i hope this helps that everything works out okay for you.