I thaught it may have been going on ,but They said I was crazy for even douting them. Now They have come clean. I feel so betrayed and hurt. Any positive feedback will help. Thanks for your time.
2006-06-29 05:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by codysunfinishedlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all i'm sorry that your going through this, it's hard enough 2 know your partner cheated on u but when they do it with your actual flesh and blood it's another level, my advice is 2 not speak 2 any of them 4 a while, let your body and your mind rest, talk 2 someone u can trust and that can b around so u won't b alone, after a while sit down and talk 2 your sister and let eveything out, tell her exactly how u feel, but don't talk 2 her right away, she is your sister so eventually so should make up with her but not now, she needs 2 sit think about what she did, as far as your man my opinion would b 2 never talk 2 him again, goodluck.
2006-06-29 06:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have children with the boyfriend, then dump him and move on. Then see a counselor with your sister to find out why she betrayed you that way. Once you work that out, you'll be better sisters though it might take a while for your anger to disappate.
If you do have a child with the boyfriend, all three of you will probably need to see the counselor to try to understand why it happened and how to get over it and how not to let it happen again.
2006-06-29 12:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your sister will always be your sister no metter waht she does. I know its hard couse they both hurt you rweally bad. If I was you #1 thing I would do is pack his **** and Kick him out yesterday. After thats all done with you really need to sit down with your sister andtalk about what she did let her know she hurt you and thats something you dont do when you are family its going to take a long time for you to trust her agian but time will come. Good Luck and make shure you kick him out he dosent deserve you !!!
2006-06-29 12:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by hot maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the boyfriend and take time with your sister to get back the trust she lost because she is blood and boyfriends come and go....
2006-06-29 12:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by IM DONE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, looks like your out and she is in! sorry bout your luck.
2006-06-29 12:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE THEM OMN THE JERRY SPRINGER SHOW AND KICK THERE BUTS
2006-06-29 12:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by jse3_1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋