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Hi, I am 15. I wont say his name but I've had a crush on him for the longest time. He doesn't really feel the same way for me but can I get him to like me if I was more prettier? Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out? But the thing is what if he never does? because he doesn't feel that same way about me.

2006-06-29 05:36:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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hmm... lets see..maybe you should work a little on ur apperence. throw on a bit more eye makeup, (but not over-dramatic) and get some cute new clothes. or, maybe the problem is ur personality, if ur maybe too outgoing, then ask him to go to the movies, bowling or whatever with FRIENDS (thats the key word here, it eases off the pressure for him) but, if ur maybe too shy, try laughing more around him, ask him questions in class and flirt with him (not over-the-top flirting, try some compliments) get some courage and you can do it. guys are turned on by girls that love themselves the way they are (looks are good too). check out www.myjellybean.com for some more info. good luck!

ps--heres a trick to find out if hes interested: catch his eye and flash him ur best smile. if he smiles back, thats a good sign. if he looks embarresed or flustered, thats a really good sign. if he frowns or turns away, dont waste ur time chasin after him. god bless.

2006-06-29 05:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by **rachelle** 2 · 0 0

Okay, I hate to break it to you, but if he doesn't feel the same way now, chances are a little extra make-up and a new harido are not going to change his mind. I had a crush just like this one(I'm 15 too). We were dancing partners in the school musical and his goofiness just made me melt. We were talking about various people in the cast one day and how they looked and he was like "Yeah, Adelaide is so ugly." I just gaped at him and he laughed. He then said, "No, you're really pretty. I'm just not attracted to you."
It was awkward when he found out (someone told him) but now we're friends. Look at it this way - wouldn't you want him as a friend in this least instead of nothing at all?
One more thing....the idea that looks are number one is a misconception! Boys want a good personality for the long run!

2006-06-29 05:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well first off sweetie, dont rush the relationship that your trying to build here. You dont have to be more prettier or more smarter or anything, he should like you for who you are not who your trying to cover up. He should ask you out becasue that means that hes ready to take the step into the relationship. I know it might be hard to do that because he might not feel the same way about you, but i bet if you would try your hardest and talk to him he could fall for you, you never know. And if it seems that he doesnt want to take part in your life than just try to become great friends with him because once your friends he will relize that your an amazing girl.

Good luck hun. <3

2006-06-29 05:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by lalaloveeeyou_x33 1 · 0 0

Dnt ask him girl keep ur pride also guys dnt like girls to ask them out they like to ask not to be asked .
But start a plan :
1-try to look prettier
2-hang out with other guys n freinds (without teasing him n not only guys but guys n girls too ) so he will feel u r sepcial .
3- see what he likes in a girl n do it .
4-Try to be special between ur freinds , get new ideas .
5-guys like smart girls so try to be smart n show ur talents n skills n ur brightness clearly
6- Also wear some clothes which do fit u , maybe alittle bit sexy (but not too sexy cz he will think u r trying to seduce him just show ur beauty )
That's all try this . GOOD LUCK.

2006-06-29 05:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by who k 3 · 0 0

you cant get a boy to like you if he doesnt like you give up dont try to change urself for anybody i dont care how much u like them stay yourself if he doesnt like you mnow he probably wont never like you but and the long run your 15 you have a while to be and a relationship so dont just stay stuck on this one guy but if u really like like him tell him how u feel and if he doesnt say anything or say he doesnt feel the same he doesnt like you so give up im sure there is many more boy who would like you for you

2006-06-29 05:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by devandanielle 2 · 0 0

Ur a Kid You hav to wait still 3 more years

2006-06-29 05:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the courting can or connot very last lengthy relying on how far aside they are. in case you want to loaf round with him, possibly a number of his acquaintances can connect you and a number of your acquaintances so as that it is not uncomfortable and yuo get to loaf round

2016-10-13 23:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Be yourself. Talk to him about anything you want, maybe after a while he will feel something about you.

Good luck!

2006-06-29 05:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0 0

you really can't change your looks to much at your age. The best you can do is talk to him and tell him you like him.

2006-06-29 05:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0 0

if you like him that much ask him out don't be shy let out your feelings towards him then c how he feels

2006-06-29 05:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ziggy 1 · 0 0

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