should i tell my mom???

Question

my mom disaproves of one my male friends. she told me that i should neva eva go with him. but i wind up going with him. we have bn together for the past 11 months. we have talked about the past, present and future. and he is been right here beside me through it all. she does not know about our relationships but all my friends know. he wants to tell her. i dont. at least not right now. i think if i tell her she is going to kick me out or something and i am not ready to hear it all right now. (i have a medical condition as in where i can not do with too much stress nor anxiety.) and this guy is the best thing that has ever happen in my life. he is my baby and my angel. he really respects and accepts for who i am. even the fact that he cant get none until we say "i do". my mom is kind of strict as well. we want see each other more and often. he is 19 and i am 17. so should i tell her or keep it on the low for little bit longer or what?????

Answer 1

tell her.

Answer 2

Well, if you can't deal well with stress you need to just tell your mother. You will feel much more relieved. Holding this is is a million times more stressful than telling her. If you tell her sincerely, she should be able to see in your eyes that you are being honest, and respect your decision. Tell her to give him a chance, and not to be so judgmental. Tell her you respect her opinion, but she should respect your too.

Answer 3

I think you should get it off your chest cuz holding it up inside u is also stress, and the sooner you tell her the sooner it will all be over with

Answer 4

tell him what would happen if u tell ur mom from there u'll make ur decision

Answer 5

you should obey your mom.