my 7 years old has ADD and hasn't been learning the proper behaviors because he hasnt been able to focus.. I am looking for a way for him to be nicer to his 5 year old brother. He is down right rotten, mean and doesn't share with him at all!! Please help!!
2006-06-29 05:16:44 · 5 answers · asked by flowerup2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first i don't believe in all that add crap find your child the right vitamins get this drink called Noni in the pure form give it to your child daily it will help him calm down instead of doping him up in the meantime the only way your boys will stop fighting is for you to discipline them and i don't mean just saying stop as parents we need to be more firm if the boys fight there should be a punishment immediately no debate at all say what you mean and mean what you say your children are a product of you you allow them to fight by not being stern you don't want to be a PAP ( punkassparent) your boys will grow up and take this very behavior public god forbid the law has to deal with them now your are raising boys to be productive men not brats and don't use that damn ADD as an excuse it should not be used as a crutch to act up you figure out what form of discipline you can deal with and just do it teaching your boys how to love and respect each other teaches them how to act in life my source is my 10 and 9 year old sons and the NONI JUICE works my son has no sign of ADD at all
2006-06-29 05:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My brother and I are 19 months apart. We fought constantly when we were younger. My kids are two years apart and they fight constantly. They also play together and miss each other at times, but it seems like fighting is the only they do together. It is part of growing up and figuring out who you are. They are normal. Wait a few years and the fighting will slow down. Once they grow up, it will stop.
2006-06-29 12:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by kaydet93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are too young to be mean.Do they spend quality time with you?As you mention that the 7yrs old has ADD,he needs professional help too.It's not as easy as for common 7 years.Find out games that need more energy.He will have an outlet.
2006-06-29 12:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by uncoolmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use time outs and be consistant!! Let him know his behavior, no matter what the excuses, is not acceptable.
2006-06-29 12:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by wildbill05733 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD LET THEM SLEEP A LITTLE LONGER THAN 4 HRS. SERIOUSLY I WOULD REWARD FOR GOOD BEHAVIOUR AND DESIGNATE A CORNER FOR BAD BEHAVIOUR. DONT GIVE IN TO THEM . WHAT YOU SAY IS LAW AND MAKE THEM RESPECT THIS.
2006-06-29 12:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by shirls4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋