i haven't talked to this guy i like in about 4 days. i keep waiting for him to call me but he still hasn't. when we do talk it's because i called him. our conversations are great, we laugh, we flirt, we even talk about serious things. i thought he liked me, but he cant even pick up the phone and dial my number. should i call him?? or would that be too desperate looking?
2006-06-29 05:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by jaylah* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it a week first, and see what happens. If he doesn't call you, call him and let him have a great time talking to you (leave him wanting more) you can even drop a hint - "call me only if you want to" then laugh.
If he doesnt call you after this, don't ever ever ever call him again.
2006-06-29 05:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in you other than a general friend. Move on and do no wait for the phone to ring. Really life is too too short for this. You will find someone who really does care for you. You can tell when this happens, listen to your intuition, one of the best gift's God gave any of us.
2006-06-29 12:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call him, and before you hang up, next time say, hey call me tomorrow. See, how he responds to this. If he agrees then doesn't confront him, and if he doesn't agree question him? He may just see you as a good distraction. So the best thing to do is find out, especially if you feel chemistry.
2006-06-29 12:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by femme fatale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i had that happen to me lot's of times and you know girl. i say dont call him let him call you. you called to many times now its his turn.and i know its hard cause of the good conversations you both have had. but just keep it off your mind, do thing, keep busy, guys always want attention and if you give it to him then he's not going to give you what you want. so play like him (hard to get).
all of us women did to stick together and kill these guys at there own game. so good luck and be strong!!!
2006-06-29 12:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've called 4 times...that's enough. He would by now if was intrested. He talks to you becauses you call him.
Sit back and relax.
2006-06-29 12:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shay~Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him but not often and ask him why u alway the only one why can he do the same if u bother him when u call or stalk him he should be honest and tell u what's up
2006-06-29 12:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by tanai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think you should call and ask him how he's doing and what is he doing these days. Maybe he/s doing somemthin that he doesnt want you to know.
Good luck.
2006-06-29 12:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NAW! seems to me like he is either too busy or not interested....HONESTLY, which do you think it is. And if he is too busy to call you, dont waste your time calling him! Im sure you can do better homegirl. Keep it real!
2006-06-29 12:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by J-Bo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could just joke around and be like hey y dont u ever call me...didnt ya miss me....stuff like that
2006-06-29 12:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to call, if he doesn't take the hint and move on
2006-06-29 12:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋