okay, so me and my boyfriend broke up but i want him back. actually i need him back. so can you people help me and give me advice on how to win him back. oh yeah, he already has another girlfriend. =/
2006-06-29 05:05:54 · 39 answers · asked by lalaloveeeyou_x33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make him mac and cheese
2006-06-29 05:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by hotsauce919rr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, thats the problem... You dont NEED him back sweetheart. I take it he broke up with you. Therefore if a man wants to walk out of your life, LET HIM GO!!! If you are confident and know you were a good gf he will miss you and he will see just what he had. Now when he comes runnin back beggin, you flip the script! Baby, you should look for someone who is COMPLEMENTARY not SUPPLEMENTARY, bcuz a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.. Besides change comes from within, you cant change his heart, so dont waste your time... MOVE ON!!!
2006-06-29 05:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by J-Bo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To win something means that you were in competition. If it is a game then you are the winner. When the new girlfriend is not quite perfect, the jerk will come back to you. If you take him back--you will be the loser. In a few months you will be saying Thank God for Unanswered Prayers! Life's to short--move on!
2006-06-29 05:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by totaleapofaith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend or girlfriend are not prizes to win back. Let him go. If it was meant to be, it will be. Let him know how you feel, then let it be. You state .... "actually I need him back". I feel you should never feel the "need" of someone, rather you love them and enjoy the time with them. So what is the need? Sex, money, not having to be single?
My suggestion is to write him a letter, let him know how you feel (not stating you need him), and let it go. Move on. Do not wait, move on. Love should not be a competition of winning something back.
2006-06-29 05:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mistake you lost him.
Now he`s someone else`s.
The whole wide world is full of boys. Start a fresh new & clean relationship. And this time make sure it stays intact.
Bring in lot of love, care, tenderness and respect. Avoid the physical intimacy which is the only reason for breakups. Naturally, once you eat the icing on the cake, who likes to eat the cake?
Have a nice relationship.
2006-06-29 05:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the importent thing is why he broke up w/ u if it was for this other girl then O Hell no hes not worth it truts me i'v have been there a few time if its not do little things that only u and him know about make it so no matter what he does you will always be a mark on his heart and he can't get you out of his brain.
2006-06-29 05:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥XxaniXx♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. He obviously moved on because he wasn't as interested in you as you are in him. Get over him, and find someone else. People break up for a reason, and that reason doesn't miraculously go away if you get back together.
2006-06-29 05:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you don't stand much chance if he has already moved on. You need to get to know yourself better and then you will realise that you don't actually need him and in time you will see that it was all for a reason. Take care of yourself and only you!
2006-06-29 05:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, get over it! Never, ever go back out with the same guy...its sounds like you both grew outta interest and if he has a girlfriend, just be happy for him and dont ruin his relationship...everyone deserves happiness, maybe yours is suppose to be with some other guy!
2006-06-29 05:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by HideAnotherMistake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to win him back. If he wanted to be with you he would be, and if he decides that he does want to be then he will come back to you. Don't waste your time it's not worth it. Find someone who really wants to be with you and appreciate them instead.
2006-06-29 05:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by femme fatale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound like a joke, but I am TOTALLY serious: Go to his house wearing a dress with no underwear. Once he lets you inside, take off the dress and stand in front of him, nude, and give him a coy smile. 99% of men will absolutely melt on the spot.
2006-06-29 05:11:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋