I am into the old fashion values of the bible(God's word) , regarding waiting, but my boyfriend is not. I really like him and everything, but he refuses to wait until marriage. What am I to do? I know the majority of the people, especially guys do not wait. I just prefer to wait b/c I dont believe it is good to just have sex with someone b/c he is ur boyfriend. So, if the relationship does not work, you just gave your body to him. Do you keep that going until you find the right person, giving your body away to someone just b/c you think it is going to last? That would be horrible! What do you think?
2006-06-29 04:53:29 · 24 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay strong in God's Word. The very fact that you are concerned and asking about this is His sign to you that it is not right. He will lead you to your heart's desire. When you get married you will find that waiting was THE best thing to do and the RIGHT thing to do and you will have NO REGRETS. Stay strong and stand firm and you will be blessed.
2006-06-29 05:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by tokyosalsagrl04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me too i wanna knw why accualy i didn't have sex till now n i won't before i get married i will wait till i get married cz i think a woman have only to give herself , her body n her hole life only to one man in her life i wish we both can get the answers . But keep ur beliefs n don't give him urself before marriage , he should be happy to hear that if he really loves u . If he isn't so let him go to hell . If he loves u he should respect u n ur values.
I am like u i won't do sex before marriage cz it's a sin i am a christian n i will keep my traditions n god's word is never an old tradition , it keeps u pure u knw if someone gives her body to everyone she will lose alot of the purity of her spirit so keep urself pure n wait for the right one who believes in god's word n he will make u happy n u will love him .
If u want my opinion dumb him cz even u both get married it will never work cz u r relegious n he isn't , u got different values.
i knw my words sounds bad n not romantic but this is the truth u dnt wanna believe .
keep ur values n dont give it up , u r right it what god says n what god says is always the right thing , u r god girl n he will give u a better one , the one u love dnt deserve someone like u .
U r great n dnt listen to those whho says that all guys r like that or who says to give up . DON'T
I am with u .
2006-06-29 04:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by who k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-wife was my first. I think you should wait. It was very special for us. I don't think there is anything wrong with having sex before you are married if you are ready. I wasn't, and it doesn't sound like you are. A guy that only wants to be with you if you "put out" isn't worth the skin he is in. God Bless
2006-06-29 05:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully...if this "boyfirend" cared about you, then the issue would be nonexistent. Believe what the Lord has spoken that giving it up before marriage leads to destruction. You become bound to this person for all the wrong reasons. Keep your moral values. It will bless you one day!!
2006-06-29 04:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by mac5doc 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he can't be with you without sex until your married then he isn't worth keeping around. It is obvious that he is probably judging your relationship on how good or how bad the sex will be. But if you believe that you shouldn't have sex before marriage then keep on with your beliefs.
2006-06-29 04:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I admire you strong morals and values, but guys hormones are running very high at young ages, many of them are dying to get some. Its your choice, and if he wont wait he isnt truly in love with you. my wife was like that for almost 3 years before she finally gave in, but i did not pressure her, and I would have waited. We have been married for almost 12 years.
2006-06-29 04:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what if you two wait and find out that you arent sexually compatible?
man if i were him i'd run for the hills, a woman who isnt into sex in the new "everything is wonderful we're in love" phase of a relationship, is probably not going to give up sex very often once she gets married and the chemistry wears off
2006-06-29 04:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by whoisgod71 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have 2 internet girlfriends that thinks like you, but I m not sure if there are virgin. I told them that is not important for me if there are virgin or not that is your choice but dont spect everybody to think like you. I understand about all the moral and ol fashion values, but lets see the reality and stand on the ground, if you keep thinking like that you are not going to find the one you really want. Keeping your virginity is not a big deal anymore, everyone have needs and god made us like that to use it and procreate.
2006-06-29 05:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Juan o 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ultimately sweetie you have to stay true to yourself. If want to save yourself for marriage then do so. If someone refuses to accept that tell them to move on. Boyfriends will come and go, but you have to live with yourself and your values forever.
Peace to you.
2006-06-29 05:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by zippo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because most guys are selfish and only think of their own wants and desires and don't take the other person's feelings or anything else into consideration
2006-06-29 04:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋