what would you do if you got your cell phone bill and noticed that your b/f made a call to someone when he went out of town to a female in the state he went to? I called and got a girls voice mail but I left no message. Do you think he cheated? We have been together for 4 years and have children and I think that this is really weird.
2006-06-29 04:52:48 · 31 answers · asked by mpbunnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he went out of town for a bowling tournament and he has no family on that state and he called that number 5 times and 1 of them they talked for 19 minutes.
2006-06-29 06:21:32 · update #1
Oh Please
2006-06-29 04:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Darthritus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because you don't know you shouldn't jump to conclusion. Tell him that you know and why he hasn't told you about this girl. In a relationship especially an four year one there should be no secrets. It's possible he was cheating but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Because your the one he come home to. I mean your his baby mother for god sakes. He was just wanting to get some when he was out of time. Men have strong hormones and they cheat. Some men don't. But have a talk with him about it. But start wearing condoms because he can bring you back a disease and that can cost you your life. Love isn't worth it.
2006-06-29 11:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by nino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Signs of a Cheating Husband
1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's home.
8) His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband's shirt
2006-06-29 11:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on what the conversation was about, what did he go out of town for, business, or vacation. If it was business then it could have been someone who he had a meeting with in that state but then again you never know Go with your instinct.
2006-06-29 11:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion ... talk to him. Not knowing will only make you question him more. The only fair thing to do is admit to him that you know of this call and see what he has to say. There may be a reasonable explanation to the phone call. But I'm guessing the not knowing is eating you up inside.
Do you trust him?
2006-06-29 11:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him. "Honey, there was a strange number on the cell phone bill, can you tell me what it is?" If you have been together that long and have children, then you should be able to have a conversation.
2006-06-29 11:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just in conversation, get your cell bill out and ask him if he knows this number and read it off to him, and if he says no, say well I called it and I know from our conversation the woman and I had that it was not me that she spoke with, ask him how he knows this woman and what was he calling her for? you have a right to know especially since it was done on a bill that you pay. best of luck.
2006-06-29 12:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call the girl back and nicely ask her if anythings going on. chances are if you think he's cheating you're not going to believe him even if he tells you the truth. after you talk to her listen to your heart and then try to calmly talk to him. if nothing's going then amybe you should put a little more trust in him. maybe it was a wrong number. try to keep a logical head. i hope this helps.
2006-06-29 12:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by amariahliegh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a reason to suspect that he is cheating (obviously you do, or this wouldn't have crossed your mind, right?), then you should ask him. Sitting around wondering doesn't help you or your relationship. So ask him--give him a chance to explain.
Of course, if you suspect that he was cheating, you aren't going to believe him anyway, right? So what you need to decide for yourself is what it will take to convince you that he is innocent. I would answer that question first.
2006-06-29 11:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by tdw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know it wasn't a friend of his and that was his girlfriend/wife on the voice mail. not all voice mail just belong to the voice on it but sometimes to an entire family of group
2006-06-29 11:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by roberthumphrey@rogers.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's bothering you then ask your boyfriend about it. Don't assume until you know for sure. Has he cheated on you in the past? Do you have any reason to doubt him? Has he been acting different towards you?...Don't accuse him just yet, ask him about it first.
2006-06-29 11:57:29 · answer #11 · answered by BaBy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋