Is an age difference of 16-14 wrong or bad? 2 years is it a lot?

Question

She is 15 and I am 17 but I really do like her and no I don't think about sex. I respect her and myself.

Answer 1

i dont think its a problem me n my b/f r 2 years apart im 15 hes 17 =)

Answer 2

I think 14 and 16 is a bad difference. It isn't the years, it's the age. There is a lot of things that you experience in those years. I don't know what to say as far as what age you should stick with but I wouldn't want my daughter, at that age, to date a guy that is 16. When I was 16, I was dating a 21 year old. Everyone thought that was to much too and I found out they were right. He had a lot of respect for me and didn't pressure me to have sex, but he was still way ahead of me in every way. He was interested in settling down and I hadn't even started yet.

I ended up marrying the guy but I was 19 and he was 24. It wasn't to bad then. When you are 30 and she is 28, it won't matter at all.

I hope this helps some.

Answer 3

I'd say the younger either one of the partners are the worse things are. I believe the age thing really does come in to it, but it is more because of maturity and experience. There are a lot of changes at that time in your life, but also hers. Two people who are totally changing makes for a difficult time. In general I don't see a problem with a 2 year gap except for the fear that it will cause one or both of you pain because from the outside it seems like it is unlikely to last, and regretful things can happen when one or both of you don't know exactly what you want in a partner yet.
That said it may turn out to be a beneficial experience for the two of you, and so trying it may not be such a bad thing. Just know that both of you are apt to fairly wild changes in life view, attitudes, moods and feelings (even if you don't realize it at this time) Id say try it, but be careful, but that is just me.

Answer 4

that's ok age sensible, yet why would you get in a courting so quickly? he's 16, in 2 years he will be 18 (an adult) and also you'd be 15, (a minor). that's the position you'll see a difficulty. the in uncomplicated phrases difficulty is that he will be on yet another mind-set that you will be. he will be off to school once you'd be in intense college, you both would have diverse perspectives on issues and it will be very confusing later on. on the otherhand, in case you both imagine you may do it, extra means to you. I only does no longer favor you to get damage. (Oh and trust me, there are going to be a good number of crushes to love and get damage through) stay existence, don't be tied down so early.

Answer 5

No. My first boyfriend, when I was 15, was about 20 years older than me. That isn't too much. Just be careful if after you turn 18, and if you ever have sex before she is legal.

Answer 6

Age difference is NOT a barrier it is only love that matters between the both of you.

My partner is 12 years my senior and there are a lot of people who have a much wider age difference between them.

So to answer your question NO it does not matter.

Answer 7

no its not. my b/f is 15 and i'm 13. 2 years isn't that much of a difference

Answer 8

2 years isn't a lot at all! in a few years you'd barely see the difference

Answer 9

As long as you remember the golden rule (no screwing the underaged ones), the age difference shouldn't be a big deal.

Answer 10

no it is all good...just be careful when u turn 18 cuz we all know what guys are thinking and want know matter the age. even if u disagree....