I had a guy call me, I have never met him before, I don't even know who he is. He dialed the wrong number and got me. Well, we started talking and we accually have alot in common and we have been talking for over a month now. We still have not met each other, but we have mentioned it a few times. He seems like a real nice guy and I am accually interested but I don't know if we should meet. What if he is a complete phyco. What would you do? I am 21 and he said he is 20 but I don't know that for sure. Would you take a chance and meet up? It just all seems kinda weird cuz i got out of a very serious relationship and about the time I decided I was ready to meet someone new was when he called. Is it fate? Give me your opinions, please.
2006-06-29 04:18:53 · 43 answers · asked by JLEE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to a very public place....meet at the mcdonalds inside wal mart...lots of surveilence going on there. Don't go anywhere with him alone...tote a friend, some mace, whatever makes you feel safe. I met my hubby in a similar way, it was fate, but when i met him for the first time, it was in a public place, and i brought about 15 of my closest bodyguards...
GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-29 04:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by whoanelly00 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very interesting to see how you first got to know your friend, usually people just hang up after they know its a wrong number call. I'm just surprise that you actually carried on a conversation with a complete stranger over the phone and started somewhat a relationship.
Its up to you whether you want to take this relationship up to the next level by meeting with him, however it would be wise to have a few precautions backup setup when meeting him.
For example:
-meet in a populated area where there is alot of ongoing traffic of people
-meet in daytime and possibly a meeting place where there are police or authority near by (ie: cafe near police station or large bus station)
-have a friend go with you
Just be careful since you don't know anything about this person, whether his information was real or not. He might turn out to be a genuine sweetheart, but be cautious before you find that out.
2006-06-29 04:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he already has your number....... I'd say go meet him some place safe with people around but be on your guard. It may not have been an accident that he called you, he may have had some details to make it seem like he has a lot in common with you.
On the other hand, maybe it is just fate. Be cautious, but don't let that stop you from enjoying life or trying something new that might not work out.
2006-06-29 04:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by BadBoyHuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to meet in a public place, and bring a friend with you. I met someone off the internet, and that was a huge mistake because they lied about their appearance completely. You never know with people, and you can't put anything past anyone. It's better to be safe than sorry. If you see that all is going well on the first meeting then, go a little further in your friendship
2006-06-29 04:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's happened to me. A girl not only dialed the wrong number but her friend had the same first name. We talked for five minutes before we relized it was a wrong number. We met, she was very cool and very nice looking. We had a great time that lasted six months, then she moved for college. Meet your wrong number guy. Do it in public and bbing a buddy. You don't want to pass up a may be. If he's wrong, forget him. Just give youself the oppertunity to find out if he's worth forgetting. Good luck.
2006-06-29 04:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by country 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your that interested keep in touch with him for a while but don't give out to much info till you think you might get to know him and about him a little better. Maybe hook up with him on the pc and see what he looks like and if you want to meet set a meeting sometime like the mall or next to the police station with a friend and be cautious always
2006-06-29 04:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you do decide to meet you need to be very careful about it... Meet in a very public place. Take a friend with you... Does he live in the same town as you? How did you end up talking from a wrong #? Did he just make a conversation with you?
2006-06-29 04:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Funny Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you meet with him, try having a conversation about the longest relationship he's had, what was his likes and dis-likes, what does he think could have been done to save the relationship. Or how has he grown from it? What would he do differntly this time? How does he treat his mother? Is she living? What are his long and short term goals in life? These things seems to pull out information that sometimes is not pertaining to the questions, they feel comfortable enough to really be themselves.
2006-06-29 04:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by beautifulnubian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really interested and you have had decent conversations with him, I would take the chance and meet him. But I would definitely do it in a public place, maybe with a friend along. It could be fate knocking at your door and meeting him could be the only way to find out.
2006-06-29 04:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen for a reason. He dialed the wrong number and you all hit it off. I would say to chance it and meet him in a well lit, Populated place like a starbucks or McDonalds. You Might have just met your next ex boyfriend LOL.
Now Take 2 ov Deez and call me in the Morning
2006-06-29 04:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋