Say the guy you love just doesnt see you, how do you get him to notice you and to see if he really is great for you
2006-06-29 04:00:25 · 18 answers · asked by freakincagedotcom88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth is, you can't make someone love you, that person has to grow/chose to love you all by himself/herself. Loving someone is one of life's really great experiences, but receiving that love in return is better. If you stay in a situation where you love the person and he or she doesn't feel the same, in the long run you will be hurt and you may be missing out on other wonderful experiences. Don't put yourself through that hurt when your love finds his/her own companion to love. (i'm speaking this from experience)
2006-06-29 04:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to make them notice you first. Before you can even think about love. Get to know them become a friend first then see how things go.
2006-06-29 04:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that a guy doesn't see you. Guys look at girls all the time, it's just an instinct. The problem is, you can't make someone love you.
2006-06-29 04:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It is impossible to MAKE or FORCE anyone to love you.
All you can do is be good to them and for them and hope they fall in love naturally.
The good news for you , however, is that there are ways to help this process along, for example, read up on NLP and then learn about people's strategies for success in different endeavors. when you understand this, find out what their strategy for attraction is. When you know this, you only have to replay it, and they will find you almost irrisistable.
Good luck.
2006-06-29 04:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by kenhallonthenet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to appear in front of him as many times as u can..tis is the only choice for u to get his notice..after tat,give him a friendly smile when he notices u..and later,try to show ur concern to him by asking question or tell him something which can attract his attentions..but,pls dont over do it,orelse he wil get annoying..god bless u
2006-06-29 04:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by leo'gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become his friend first so that you can see if he's genuinely someone you want to be with. If he is then when you're friends with tell him you like him since you'd be comfortable around him.
2006-06-29 04:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you.
2006-06-29 04:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by blessed_in07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you!
2006-06-29 04:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not make anyone love you. just be your self. try going up to him introduce yourself and see where it goes from there. he might be waiting on you to approach him (shy guy)
2006-06-29 04:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by mary h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something Awesome that will make you stand out. Then he'll probably think "Wow shes amazing!"
2006-06-29 04:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋