How can I get my somewhat prudish girlfriend of three years to become more sexually adventurous instead of her now usual 'Lie back & think of England' routine. She never was one for experimenting, and quite frankly, if she doesn't start putting out, I'm gonna start looking elswhere for my kicks?
2006-06-29 03:49:25 · 23 answers · asked by Heatseeker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes well, all the talking has been done, explained many times that I was getting twitchy and might wander, still no effect. Think you might be right guys, time for A NEW MODEL!
2006-06-29 03:57:52 · update #1
just tell her exactly that, tell her your bored and if she doesnt start being more adventurous then you will have to start looking elswhere, and then when youve picked yourself up off the floor, RUN
2006-06-29 03:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by jojo78 5 · 8⤊ 6⤋
I think your lady is interested in something other than you. Sorry to say. If anybody wants to keep their partner they do everything to make it happen.
Or maybe your lady has had an experience that makes her afraid of exploring her sexuality. It may not be all about you you know!
Perhaps go from the approach that you're looking out for her and she may just open up to you.
Give it a try and good luck!
2006-06-29 04:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by geekiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her about this. If you've done that then go to an adult bookstore. They have all kinds of games, movies, & toys etc. It is frustrating I know but sex is a psychological thing this may be a result of the way she was brougt up or something bad from her childhood.
Good luck :-)
2006-06-29 03:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of the "lie back and think of England" line, that is cute. Anyway, make sure your girlfriend feels very comfortable, first, and that you make her feel incredibly beautiful. It is easier to express yourself when you feel good about yourself. Make sure there is LOTS of foreplay, too. Touching, kissing, caressing...When you want to introduce something new go really really slowly, and let her know how much she turns you on, too. Good luck to you !
2006-06-29 04:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by crazymomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new model mate. Some women are too fixed up on their own "mills and boon" version of love but they don't care what men need!
2006-06-29 03:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Les-Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let her know how you feel, tell her that she needs to do some of the work,
sounds like she may be a little shy or scared to try summet new,
start off slow, try the foot pun shoulder position and see how it goes.
good luck
2006-06-29 03:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by passion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With lines like "Lie back and think of England" I'm surprised she "puts out" at all. Talk to her about it. Not us!
2006-06-29 03:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Grimread 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical. If I were you and it was such an issue and you were going to cheat on her if she doesn't change her ways, then I would say you need to break up with her. Come to think of it, she must not care too deeply for you or she would make every effort to please you.... HHHhhhmmmmm... Something to think about...
2006-06-29 03:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by absolutedejavu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a nice sensual massage .... that always makes me feel sexy..... tease her but don't actually touch her bits until she is almost begging you to. Then she will be so hot, I'm sure she will be up for anything!
2006-06-29 03:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Been there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Communication is the key to successful relationships. Tell her how you feel about the issue.
2006-06-29 03:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy should be enjoyed by both and if you truly love this young lady you will work it out between you
2006-06-29 04:29:35 · answer #11 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋