If she gets pregnant and her baby looks like him.
2006-06-29 03:46:35
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answer #1
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answered by psykhaotic 4
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You can never tell with guys.They're weird like that. Some you can ask straight up and they say yes or no.Some guys tell their friends who they like but deny it when you ask them because they don't want you to know.I just learned which guys to talk to and which ones are bull sh*tin'.
2006-06-29 03:53:42
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answer #2
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answered by mya 2
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He usually tends to look away from you and treats you bad and acts way different than what he used to act around you. Ask him a question about it and if he says why do you say that? or NO!!! then he is lying.
2006-06-29 03:46:54
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answer #3
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answered by jorgec1582003 2
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That is actually rather easy. If he is not wanting to spend any time with you any more, and is spending time with some other girl, you have a pretty good idea he is not wanting to be with you any longer.
It is to bad when people can't just be honest and tell someone when they don't want to be with them any longer. It is to bad when somebody who is imature hurts somebody else because they just don't have the courage to tell the truth about where they are at with a relationship.
Sometimes a guy just pretends he "likes" a girl in order to get her to have sex with him. Guys are notorious about saying all kinds of stuff just to get a girl in bed. Once he has sex with her he just doesn't have any more reason to spend time with her. Some girls are too young to understand how boys behave and get in over their heads, thinking just because a boy sleeps with them that a "relationship" has formed. Nope, it is not that at all. A boy will even go so far as to tell a girl he "loves" her or anything else which he thinks she needs to hear in order to get sex from her. Girls who have low self esteem think a boy who is providing some attention has interests in more than sex. That is not usually the case with the younger crowd. Girls need to understand that boys are not really into having just one girl. They have their friends for companionship and comadery and they really don't need a girls companionship, just as much sex as they can get.
Listen, if you give out sex to a boy before you know what he is really like, if you don't do your homework and see if his past behaviors shows any sign of him having "relationships" with girls other than sexual encounters, then you are jumping into a situation where you will get hurt and used. Girls need to have a bit more self esteem, and self respect and not just give out sex to boys because they are giving a bit of attention. A boy will give a lot of attention while on the "chase" and once he gets the prize (sex) he will tire of that one quickly, sometimes after just one sexual encounter, and move on to the next "chase".
Young boys and young men reach maturity much later than girls do. A young lady may reach a level of maturity at lets say, eighteen, that a boy will not reach untill he is twenty two. While young women can reach adulthood (we always keep learning and growing throughout life) around twentyone while a young man will not really reach that level of adulthood until he is twentyfive to twentyeight. Most young men do not want to be "tiend down" by a "relationship" with a young woman untill he is over twenty, and probably not even ready to consider a long term relationship until he is twenty five or older. Guys just are wired differently in their brains than women are.
Also, women reach a level of desire of wanting a committment much sooner than do men. A women may think she has found her special guy after dating for six months, while the guy will not be ready to consider her for a committed relationship around a year after dating. This is just a difference women and men need to understand. A lot of people get hurt due to not understanding the difference between how men and women approach relationship committments. A woman who reaches that place sooner than the guy she is dating will begin to worry he is not demonstrating the same degree of committment she is feeling and will make the mistake of pressuring him for an answer on a committment or worse give an ultimatum. Guys will dump a woman who gives ultimatims about commitment. Guys view that as controlling behavior and just plain pushiness on the womans part, both of which are the kiss of death for a possible committment from the guy. Guys like to feel in control of their own destiny, not have a woman telling them how they should feel, where they should be at emotionanlly, and when they should reach that point.
My best advice is to see if he is still treating you with respect and consideration. See if he is still wanting to spend a lot of time with you. If both of these have changed, or if he never treated you with the respect, consideration, and honor each woman deserves in a relationship then it is not going anywhere, and he is probably seeing other women or girls too.
You can tell by how he treats you and if he wishes to spend time with you. However, remember that guys will not reach that point of committing as soon as you do. So, if you feel an emotional attachment, lets say in about three months, he won't reach that identical place untill at least a year. This is the normal expectations of behavioral patterns in budding romantic relatiionships. Watch for pulling away. Pulling away prior to reaching a commitment is a sure sign your guy is not wanting to continue the relationship.
Good luck in your relationships. Blessed Be.
2006-06-29 05:30:27
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answered by Serenity 7
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easy! do he seems to be more interested in other things then what you and him do? does he find reason to want to be around someone else or be somewhere else? does he seems to working late or want to start an argument just to leave? or better yet, DOES HE OR HAS HE STARTED COMPARING YOU TO SOMEONE ELSE ???? if you have answered yes to any one of these answers then ..........
2006-06-29 03:50:37
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answered by mary h 1
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It's easy. Ask him. If you can't bring yourself to ask - watch the signs. How much time is he spending with her vs you?
2006-06-29 03:47:14
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answered by THE SINGER 7
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if he loses interest, connections, and bonds with you and often stares at other girls, wantingly, and completely ignores you.
2006-06-29 03:46:47
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answer #7
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answered by blah 4
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