does it show immaturity on my part if i dont answer my ex's phonecalls? he walked out on me, he made the decision he didnt want the relationship anymore. i was in love and wanted to make it work. he has been calling me saying he wants to make sure im alright and that he doesnt want things to be this way. i dont answer the phone....as far as im concerned he made his decision so what else is there to talk about?
2006-06-29 03:41:30 · 46 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-29 03:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
a lot of people might say by ignoring someones phonecall your considered 2 b immature, but i think in your case your doing the right thing, he got what he wanted so now he should accept your wishes and move on, i'm in a similar situation where my x keeps calling 2 c if i'm ok and as much as i miss her i ignore every time she tries 2 get a hold of me, continue 2 do what your doing, goodluck.
2006-06-29 03:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right On! He stepped in it so let him wipe his OWN shoe! You tried to make it work and he wouldn't hear it. Frankly, I think the whole "i'm just calling to see if you're ok" schpeil is just to get his foot in the door again. He can't be without you honey, so if you don't want him, check the caller ID and go take a long bath! It's a classic case of "don't know what you got till it's gone".
2006-06-29 03:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being immature. He hurt you by walking out on you, and he doesn't deserve you. Maybe sit down and write him a letter explaining how you feel, and that you don't want him to contact you anymore.
However, he may have realized what a big mistake he made. Maybe sit down and listen to what he has to say, but if you decide to give it another go, be careful. Feel free to analyze everything he does to death. HTH
2006-06-29 03:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by m_schritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem and I don't think your immature... your just done with the situation and don't want to deal with him anymore. My ex kept calling me because he was pretending he cared about me but just wanted to be the one who was right... like if I was nice to him then he would feel OK about himself and leaving the relationship- plus he tried to steal money from me! (he over charged me for a trip we took together) But I won't have it- I emailed him
"Hey, looks, I am not mad at you and I don't hold any regrets but I am done talking to you. Stop emailing me and leave me alone. I have nothing to discuss with you and if I run into you I'll be polite but I don't want to chit chat. I have moved on and I wish you would stop contacting me."
Then I blocked his email address and phone number (can only do it on the house line).
2006-06-29 03:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to see how you're holding up or are handling how he did u. If u answer, I would act as is all is well. That way you can have a conversation w/him & figure out what he's really after. Then u can determine if u should continue to ignore his calls.
2006-06-29 03:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy_Girl716 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think thats immature, if you dont want to talk to the guy, then you dont. Your right hes made his decision and broke your heart. I give you credit for being so strong and being able to not go back and listen to his excuses. Keep being so strong :)
2006-06-29 03:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please screw him, you really want to mess his head up let him see you looking fabulous at a place you two enjoyed going together, dont let that fool get you all hyphy, Do you, be successful without him , thats the best comeback from a relationship like that, he had his chance , now you both have to move on, and being that you had feelings for him it will be too hard to be his friend , TRUST ME
2006-06-29 03:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Starbourne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Distancing yourself from your ex right now is the best move you can possibly make, trust me. Keep ignoring him...he'll give up eventually, unless he's a stalker, then you can press charges for harassment if it bothers you that much. Or, hey...how about change your phone number and move?! :)
2006-06-29 03:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being very immature. Answer the calls, but firmly tell him how much he hurt you and that you are not going to take being treated like that and that you will not take him back. He Blew it and is the Looooooser! you can retain your dignity and be mature about it.
You owe it to yourself to be true to you.
2006-06-29 03:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by kenhallonthenet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not necessarily show immaturity if you don't. Then again, answering that bas-tard's calls does not make you mature.
Cmon, lady, he made a suc-ker out of you big time.
The best thing you can do is get this loser out of your system. Period.
2006-06-29 03:44:30 · answer #11 · answered by KH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋