i have a bf but i dont like him as more than just a friend. but i dont want to break up with him cuz then i will feel bad and it will feel awkward being around him if we break up. he hangs out at all of the same places i do so i wouldnt beable to be away from him. he is crazy about me and would do anything for me and he is the sweetest guy i have ever met. i just dont like him the way i used to when we first started dating and im really unhappy when im with him. what should i do?
2006-06-29 03:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by Jettelyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up
2006-06-29 03:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by jmharley79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go. It's not right to be in a relationship with someone because you are afraid to feel bad. You will help him find someone who really wants to be romantic with him, and he will be happier then. Think of it that way. There is someone out there for you and him, but you are preventing that from happening by remaining together. Break ups are very hard, I've been through a few. But after some time has passed, you both will be very happy when Mr. or Mrs. Right comes into you life. Good luck!
2006-07-03 15:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with him, and explain how you're feeling. It's only fair to him. Yes, things may be awkward for a while, but it's better that you're honest with him. Besides, relationships have to be built on honestly, trust and love. It's not fair to either of you if you just keep things the way they are.
2006-06-29 10:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by m_schritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him tell him the truth he deserves to know it. It'll be hard but it's the best thing to do so he doesn't get hurt more when he figures that out himself. If he really loves you that much he'll want anything to make you happy.
2006-06-29 10:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy with him, its only fair to break up with him. Why should you be unhappy? It will be akward for a while but eventually that will go away, you just have to give it time. If he really cares about you he will remain your friend.
2006-06-29 10:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by farmergyrl23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had your problem like your's before. If you love him like you say you do, stick with him till the end. One day, just really talk with him and tell him how you feel. You want your relationship to last, so try to stay strong and don't give up on it. If you still feel uncomfortable, email me. I will try to help you with your problem.Good luck!
2006-06-29 10:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by - -Ladii TK- - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u might feel bad but u have to do it. dont let yourself suffer for someone else. it u stay w/him u will be leading him on which is worse than braking up w/him. the longer u wait the harder it will be.
2006-06-29 11:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer is if ever in doubt it is best to end it because doubt means something is wrong and putting it off will only make things harder. the reason does not matter. happiness can not be found if we try to fool ourselves into thinking things will fix themselves.
2006-06-29 10:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break up with him it's better that you do it now. Becuz he'll be even more heart broken when he finds out it's just for pity!!
2006-06-29 10:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by emo4life1124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, like a gentle break-up
2006-06-29 10:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like him at least you should feel bad for 'em and dump him it would be worse if he'll found out ur gong out with 'em because u feel bad for 'em.
2006-06-29 10:53:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋