I am a lesbian... My girlfriend and I don't have sex as much and we do fight about it... but we need a way to fix this... to make her happy and to make me happy...
2006-06-29 03:27:56 · 11 answers · asked by notsurewhoiam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We don't have sex everyday and I'm not asking for it everyday... just more than once a week...
2006-06-29 03:38:51 · update #1
try compromising. tell her that you like having sex but will cut it down a notch if she agrees to participate in having sex frequently, but not daily. try asking for less sex and tell her to start to desire more. that way, you will both be happy.
2006-06-29 03:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to control your self. and its not a everyday thing that you have to do. and a way to keep her happy every time this happens its to say I'm sorry n start talking about something she would likes to talk about.and some times it's good to let her say what she think about whatever is going on.
2006-06-29 03:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet talk and after that makeup sex that is the best
first try to carm her down tell her that you sorry and how much you love her tell her what she want to hear and just hold her in your arms talk soft and gentle and ask for a kiss you will see after that she will start kissing you and you will have the best sex you had in a long time
2006-06-29 03:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is so unhappy...Hmm...I wouldnt wanna say she is cheating ebcause I dont understand for particular...be conscious her greater...I mean she must be...Why is she being so selfish together with her cellular telephone, I mean if she has no longer something to conceal then she must be prepared to make it easier to notice whats occurring...and prefer she is going via your telephone, which ability you're no longer hiding something...She desires to start up appearing good via fact she is imparting you with signs and indications that she must be having something with somebody else and that hurts you...refer to her baout this and tell her the variety you experience...Its the two she formed up and adjustments the failings she is doing so which you will have faith her, or its the two she make it easier to progression on via fact if she is cheating, then she is dropping it slow once you need to be unmarried assembly human beings and you need to finally discover that lady who will extremely cope with you the way you deserve...
2016-10-31 22:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by harib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a lower sex drive than others. She can't help that. Take care of things yourself when you need to.
2006-06-29 03:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really lover her, be happy you are with her and respect her decision. try going out more and having some fun, that mightget her in the mood. but respect her decisions if ou truely love her.
2006-06-29 03:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Angel E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a vibrator and take stock out in a battery company...good for you for having a healthy appetite! guys are definitely missing out with you doing the other team!!
2006-06-29 03:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b patient and understanding. those r the most important factors and the hardest to do.
2006-06-29 03:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to drink more alcohol
but seriously, if you stay with her you're always going to want to do it more then she does...ALWAYS. accept it and masturbate a lot or break up with her.
men have had this problem for thousands of years. welcome to the club...sucks doesn't it.
2006-06-29 03:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Coz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehm... try making sure she enjoys it more!
Surely then she'd like to have it more often?
2006-06-29 03:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋