I mean the wifey don't know and I don't wnat him to leave her for me or anything like that, the sex is jusy good. Please holla back male and female
2006-06-29 03:16:34 · 20 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your conscience just hasn't caught up with you yet. Don't worry. Just remember what goes around comes around.
2006-06-29 03:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a bad person...everyone has there own faults...NO ONE IS PERFECT.
Should you be ashamed....Maybe.
Then again...the man was married and he broke the trust just as much. He has took a vow to be with that women and then turned around and slept with someone else. To me, I could not be that person who got cheated on...it hurts to much. Been there and I know how it feels...
But if you are doing it just for sex....**** there are plenty of fish in the sea....why a married man???? But who knows...I am just letting you know your actions were wrong...but it doesn't make you a bad person. Everyone would be a bad person then. Me drinking a beer and getting drunk is no different.
I do think that you should feel bad though...MOST DEFINITELY!!
and I would drop the married man, it should of never happened.
But everyone deserves someone to love who is not already taken and made a vow.
2006-06-29 10:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by r_o_b_s_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never really understood how people always seem to blame the so called other woman. To me the only one to blame in my opinion would be the man. No one twist his arm to go looking and a man who truly loves his wife would not go looking and all the seduction in the world would not turn him.
So can I sit here and say i think you are doing wrong well not to me your not. You do not have a problem with it then I do not see why anyone could not even his wife. Don't let people make you out to be the problem here because that is just wrong the blame is the man. your not cheating because your not married to either of them and you should not be part of the blame for a weak man who cheats on his wife.
the only reasons I can see a woman blaming the other woman would be because she either fears her husband or she is in denial that her husband is so weak.
2006-06-29 10:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong, morally and emotionally. Does the couple have children? How will they be affected if the wife finds out and it breaks the family up? Don't be so selfish thinking the sex is good for you so that's all that matters. It's only a matter of time before the wife finds out you'll be a home wrecker.
Get your own man!!
2006-06-29 10:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's kinda makes you a little but bad. i mean if you were married to a man how would you feel if he were cheating on you?
weather you know about it or not, it's still wrong you know?
it's an extreme violation of trust.
also you need to watch your back because if he is cheating with you, he is cheating with others too and you coudl endup contracting something and he could end up giving it to his wife who does not deserve that.
75% of women have HPV..that's not for no reason you know.. its because of carless things like this...so yes in my opinion not caring makes what you are doing really bad, but i don't think you are a bad person, because would not have asked this question if you didn't doubt it a little, which means you feel a little bit guilty deep down
2006-06-29 10:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Carly j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no your not a bad person. Just a very horny woman that wants what she wants and no strings/commitments attached.That in my opinion is the best way to get all the a** you need and more than likely not pick up any STDs because the last thing he wants to do is bring an STD home to mamma, then get his balls cut off by her. Still continue to use protection no matter what you do.
2006-06-29 11:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I am not even married and I am disgusted by you. It is one thing to sleep with someone but another to think that it is ok. You can get good sex anywhere but great sex doesn't come until you are with someone for a while and they really know your body and what makes you happy. I would stop what you are doing right now. He's a dog anyways if he thinks that it is ok to cheat!!!
2006-06-29 10:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you are pretty much. I know that you are really tempted by him, but you really need to look out for whats called karma. I would say just quit doing this before it gets out of hand and she finds out and all hell breaks loose. I mean think about it, you wouldnt want this to happen to you right? Save yourself from the drama and move on to another relationship.
2006-06-29 10:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by bigblueeyes_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweetie......u r not a bad person.......u said u don't want him to leave his wife....does that sound like a bad person....not to me!
but there is one problem......u don't love urself enuf to trust that u deserve better than this man who is cheating another human being (with feelings just like urs) who he 'Committed' to, to be with u.......think about tht.
sure the sex is good.....but u can have something much better and far more valuable (and lasting) if u make the right choice here. know what tht is ? SELF- RESPECT.
think about ur priorities......who's love is more important in ur life....someone else's or your own?
people who respect themselves attract other people in their lives who respect them...and i know that u do wanna be respected
All The Best.
2006-06-29 10:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! baby don't worry about these hata's do you. You didn't put a gun to his head and make him cheat he made that decision himself so you are not in the wrong unless you know the chick but if you don't then get your freak on let him deal with that she married him not you so I say F'em and do real good I like girls like you bout it!! bout it!!
2006-06-29 10:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by let_it_xhale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just imagine if the roles were reversed. Would you think bad about the woman sleeping with your husband? Remember, what goes around, comes around
2006-06-29 10:20:33 · answer #11 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋