and she promised to never do ne ting mean to me like againbut seh did and now said srry..i want to do the christian thing plz help me....what should i do?
2006-06-29 03:15:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
and should i keep her as a friend?
2006-06-29 03:18:38 · update #1
do what I do, forgive but never forget!
2006-06-29 03:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sudoku Player 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to forgive. I know, because I have been in similar situations. The only thing that you can do is remember why you are friends with her in the first place and think of all those good things about her. Pray to God and tell Him that you have a desire to forgive, but that you are very upset and are having a difficult time. Just lean on Him. After you have forgiven her, those upset feelings may return from time to time. Forgiving someone is a process that can be very long and difficult, especailly when the person that hurt you is close to you and you care for them very much, because your feelings are hurt. But, if you can successfully forgive her, you will feel much better about yourself and you will also be the bigger person.
2006-06-29 10:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by proudmatriarch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are only human... I am sure you probably do things that hurt her. One of my closest friend did the worst thing a best friend can do. Of course i was furious at first i just told her i can not see or talk to you right maybe never. Well time has passed by i have forgiven her and i can't say forgotten it's hard to do. I feel good now i see her every now an then. But the Christian thing to do is tell her you need space and time to heal.
2006-06-29 10:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean nobody is perfect. I can see how she promised that, because @ the time her intention was probably to never hurt you again. But things happen, and she did apologize. If she was sincere about her apology, yes, keep her as a friend and forgive her...but don't forget what she did because in order to make sure that same thing doesn't take place again, ya gotta remember!!! Just don't bring it up over and over & pester her about her mess-up. Good luck with yalls friendship!
2006-06-29 10:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by mslady_city.tranquil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving her is the right thing to do, because how we forgive determines how we will be forgiven. That being said, it does not mean we have to allow someone to mistreat us over and over. Yes, forgive and move on, but do not put yourself in a situation where someone can be mean to you.
2006-06-29 10:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Grandma Susie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive. How many times do you want God to forgive you for your sins? Do unto others as you would have them do to you. Oh, and I typically give people a three strikes and your out policy. Hurt me once, that's okay, do it again, your in hot water, do it a third time and you can take a hike.
2006-06-29 10:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by mrsdokter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her. If your friend repented.
Matthew 6:14-15.
2006-06-29 11:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by LP S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When Jesus was asked how many times we should forgive someone, He said "Not 7 times -- but 70 times 7 times."
The message is clear. Forgive your friend.
2006-06-29 10:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her
jesus said something about frogiving a person not 7 times but 7x77 times or something like that
2006-06-29 10:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack her in back of the head with a Bible. That'll get the point across.
Or, if she does mean things a lot, you can drop her as a friend. Who needs someone like that?
2006-06-29 10:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Antique Silver Buttons 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her.sometimes its hard to change one's behavior.because they are just like that.try to be patient and understanding maybe she have a good reason for doing it to u
2006-06-29 10:22:35 · answer #11 · answered by jackass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋